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Forum: Introductions 02-17-2012, 10:56 AM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
Sadly she won't take me to court. She...

Sadly she won't take me to court.

She doesn't meet the material change check.

CPS is the only avenue she has left to her. She has no money for a lawyer, can't or won't work, and the new...
Forum: Introductions 02-17-2012, 08:34 AM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
She's on welfare, had refused to work since the...

She's on welfare, had refused to work since the order. (since it means she'd wind up having to pay me CS)

I still have a $750 cost award from nearly 2 years back that I'm owed and she's never paid.
Forum: Introductions 02-17-2012, 07:28 AM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
Well, we're discussing with a lawyer now on...

Well, we're discussing with a lawyer now on whether we have sufficient evidence to meet the material change in circumstances check to plug the holes in the existing order.

Problem is that we have...
Forum: Introductions 02-16-2012, 05:08 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
Well, almost 2 years (to the DAY at that) of the...

Well, almost 2 years (to the DAY at that) of the date she surrendered the children to me, new bullshit explodes.

She decided to withhold access this past weekend. ie. refused to return the...
Forum: Introductions 11-03-2010, 08:37 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
@lumpy: I have *9* children in my...

@lumpy:

I have *9* children in my household...there is very very little that is going to rattle me at this point :D

Work is always amazed by the fact I come in while sick or obviously...
Forum: Introductions 11-03-2010, 01:00 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
After 2 weeks shy of 2 years....I am DONE. ...

After 2 weeks shy of 2 years....I am DONE. Divorced effective 11am this morning. Custody, access, support...EL FINITO

The ex wound up with EOW from Friday at 5:30pm to Sunday at 6pm PENDING her ...
Forum: Introductions 10-26-2010, 04:56 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
She "implied" it. I'm going to get the lawyer to...

She "implied" it. I'm going to get the lawyer to draft something officially...assuming she agrees with what I asked.
Forum: Introductions 10-26-2010, 04:04 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
Well more updates than I know what to do with...

Well more updates than I know what to do with now.

Where to start? Well...

She's still in New Brunswick, staying with a friend's sister or some such. (Though this person she is staying with has...
Forum: Introductions 09-27-2010, 03:03 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
Yeah, that's the worst of it. :( The kids DO...

Yeah, that's the worst of it. :( The kids DO miss their mother and DO like spending time with her.

I can't make her attend her access time. I CAN do everything in my power to protect them, and...
Forum: Introductions 09-27-2010, 02:45 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
At the minimum? She's got some sort of mental...

At the minimum? She's got some sort of mental health issues. There were signs when we were together, and she steadily got worse as time went on.

She wasn't always as bat shit crazy as she is...
Forum: Introductions 09-27-2010, 12:41 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
Oh I agree with you 100%. The damn lawyer just...

Oh I agree with you 100%. The damn lawyer just wants to avoid 3 straight days at trial in November. He gets a signed order, he can wash his hands of the whole thing. I however, cannot.

I was...
Forum: Introductions 09-25-2010, 06:50 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
Your guess is as good as mine. At least the...

Your guess is as good as mine. At least the landlord was nice enough to allow me to retrieve some of the kids toys from their mothers before he turfed the lot of it.

She'll be back at some point...
Forum: Introductions 09-24-2010, 03:31 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
Well, it appears that the STBX is homeless...

Well, it appears that the STBX is homeless again...received a phone call that she was spotted in another province (with her mother) this morning.

Got curious and checked ye old local...
Forum: Introductions 09-15-2010, 01:25 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
Well $800 down the tubes, not any real progress,...

Well $800 down the tubes, not any real progress, but I'm no worse off by any means...

The judge ordered that the existing arrangements stand until the hearing in November.

She's still going...
Forum: Introductions 09-14-2010, 07:38 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
Not per se unfortunately. The report only makes...

Not per se unfortunately. The report only makes the recommendation of supervised since she never participated. She went ONCE, made some promises about paying for it...(never followed through) and...
Forum: Introductions 09-14-2010, 10:59 AM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
Unsupervised currently because that is what the...

Unsupervised currently because that is what the existing interim order and negotiated amendment state, and my lawyer advised me that withholding access would look a lot worse on me than allowing a 5...
Forum: Introductions 09-13-2010, 04:12 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
As long as I live, I won't understand her.... ...

As long as I live, I won't understand her....

We have court in two days to try and get a ruling on making the assessor's recommendations work with the existing order....yesterday was the LAST...
Forum: Introductions 09-09-2010, 03:18 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
Nope, it's still dragging on....I have a "final...

Nope, it's still dragging on....I have a "final hearing" scheduled for 3 days straight in November, but due to the recommendations in the assessor's report being so very different from the interim...
Forum: Introductions 07-22-2010, 09:04 AM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
Well, a FULL YEAR after it was ordered by the...

Well, a FULL YEAR after it was ordered by the court, the assessor's report finally got completed this week. 3300 dollar bill later, we have it in hand and it's filed with the courts.

End...
Forum: Introductions 06-09-2010, 07:36 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
Blah...just blah. Despite my best efforts, I...

Blah...just blah.

Despite my best efforts, I found out today my oldest son will be repeating a grade. The first half of the year his mother spent dragging him over the city (into 3 separate school...
Forum: Introductions 02-12-2010, 10:03 AM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
Game, set...match. All over except making it...

Game, set...match. All over except making it official.

Well, all her lies and other related BS finally came crashing down around her ears 2 days ago. Got an email asking if I could take the...
Forum: Introductions 01-30-2010, 09:26 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
Gahhhh... Well, there was a whole slew of...

Gahhhh...

Well, there was a whole slew of new crap this month, starting on the 20th of the month..."Where's my money, etc, etc."....of course I'm working the 20th, and the 21st...day shifts until...
Forum: Introductions 01-15-2010, 11:10 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
/begin vent: Well, she hemmed and hawed...

/begin vent:

Well, she hemmed and hawed about putting the two oldest back in their original school (the one I'm zoned for and the one they attended last year), and finally stuck her nose up and...
Forum: Introductions 12-31-2009, 02:29 AM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
Found out over the holidays that she's up and...

Found out over the holidays that she's up and moved AGAIN. (like 3 days before Christmas) to a totally different school zone.

That'll make 3 schools inside of a single year for my two oldest.
...
Forum: Introductions 12-21-2009, 12:03 AM
Replies: 62
Views: 5,388
Posted By NBDad
There have been a ton of cuts in the funding...

There have been a ton of cuts in the funding that's received by these kinds of departments. A lawyer for the children is an excellent idea, but is only assigned in cases of proven neglect/abuse.
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