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Forum: General Chat Yesterday, 10:55 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 216
Posted By tunnelight
Child support is the most ridiculous thing ever...

Child support is the most ridiculous thing ever to exist. Same as spousal support. Women have worked very hard to manipulate the laws to their favour.

That is why you should NEVER get involved...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 10:45 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 78
Posted By tunnelight
Unfortunately, they have exempted those payments...

Unfortunately, they have exempted those payments from income calculations to avoid the upsetting of the moms.

However, you do not have to pay S7 expenses you do not agree to unless a judge orders...
Forum: Financial Issues Yesterday, 10:42 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 78
Posted By tunnelight
No, dad would pay 140% of his income to mom.

No, dad would pay 140% of his income to mom.
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-22-2017, 04:38 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 382
Posted By tunnelight
if order states that Chrstimas is to be shared...

if order states that Chrstimas is to be shared equally then that would mean from 22nd after school until Dec 30th evening. Mom would have Dec 30th evening to drop to school

Dec 23rd to 30 makes...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-22-2017, 03:03 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,001
Posted By tunnelight
So if you request information about your child's...

So if you request information about your child's doctor and school, then does that mean you are bring nosy ? What if you are asking for location of pick up and drop off, does that also mean that you...
Forum: Common Law Issues 11-22-2017, 02:54 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 232
Posted By tunnelight
I stated he could bring a motion for such...

I stated he could bring a motion for such request. I did not however state that he would be guaranteed to win the motion.
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-21-2017, 12:38 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,001
Posted By tunnelight
1. to know where you children live. You can...

1. to know where you children live. You can research crime rates and such for that area.

2. to send gifts, etc.

3. to pick up / drop off if exchange needs to occur there

4. to be nosy.
...
Forum: Common Law Issues 11-21-2017, 12:32 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 232
Posted By tunnelight
how old is other child ? Why not bring an...

how old is other child ? Why not bring an immediate motion to remove children to where they live? Failing which, you get sole custody.

As part of that, you can ask to reduce arrears and workout...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-19-2017, 09:18 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 338
Posted By tunnelight
Yeah - you don't get the same prestige lawyers...

Yeah - you don't get the same prestige lawyers do, and so the professionals take advantage of you and jerk you around.
Forum: Domestic Violence 11-19-2017, 09:08 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 433
Posted By tunnelight
I hate parents that do that. My ex is the same. ...

I hate parents that do that. My ex is the same.



Careful. My ex intentionally had our child go to the principal to say I was going to harm the child. CAS was called and child did not share...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-19-2017, 08:55 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,001
Posted By tunnelight
Unless your order states you must give your...

Unless your order states you must give your address, then not much ex can do. If ex really concerned, could ask CAS to inspect your place of living and child's home as you are refusing to share where...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-18-2017, 10:20 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 498
Posted By tunnelight
Is he perhaps trying to allege that you are only...

Is he perhaps trying to allege that you are only doing 50% access to cut child support in half?

I would send a letter as follows:


Dear counsel,

The access arrengements would put us in a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-18-2017, 10:12 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,001
Posted By tunnelight
Could you provide some case law or provision...

Could you provide some case law or provision confirming same ? Last time I spoke to a lawyer, access parent has no obligation to provide their address to custodial parent. Custodial parent has to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-18-2017, 10:10 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,001
Posted By tunnelight
Unless the order states the access parent is to...

Unless the order states the access parent is to inform custodial parent of their resident, then they do not have such obligation and could be found in contempt of order if they denied access on that...
Forum: Domestic Violence 11-16-2017, 11:34 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 433
Posted By tunnelight
is he in jail? Where are the children if he is...

is he in jail? Where are the children if he is in jail ? Did the Police notify Family and Children Services? What is Family and Children Services saying.. have they contacted you?

Only the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-16-2017, 12:38 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,001
Posted By tunnelight
If they have sole custody, then chances are the...

If they have sole custody, then chances are the court has found them to be uncooperative anyways. giving their address isn't going to give the non custodial parent joint custody all of a sudden.
...
Forum: Divorce Support 11-12-2017, 12:17 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 204
Posted By tunnelight
the wait is on

friends, disclosure meeting date is set for my case... million thoughts in my head. looking for some strategies to best cope
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-12-2017, 12:13 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 456
Posted By tunnelight
first appearance case conference settlement...

first appearance
case conference
settlement conference
focus hearing re: material change and/or trial
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-30-2017, 10:10 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 157
Posted By tunnelight
halloween with both parents ?

is is normal to have halloween with both parents? in the sense one parent takes child to halloween event (with trick or treating) on their weekend with their own customes, then the other parent does...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-17-2017, 09:46 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,086
Posted By tunnelight
Thank you for answer my question, staying...

Thank you for answer my question, staying relevant, and not going on tangents. Not sure what is up with other poster who went on all crazy on 3-dimensional tangents with their imagination and wild...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-17-2017, 09:03 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,086
Posted By tunnelight
I am only trying to hear about the opinion of...

I am only trying to hear about the opinion of parents about the game so I am making the right decision about what I allow on my time. I am aware I can't control the other parent's time and that is...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-17-2017, 08:56 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,086
Posted By tunnelight
So you are suggesting your post was sarcastic? ...

So you are suggesting your post was sarcastic? How am I supposed to know? I don't know you well enough to know the tone of your posts.

I'm not a right fighter or looking for anything to fight...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-16-2017, 05:57 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,086
Posted By tunnelight
I know. It's not a protection matter. Unless the...

I know. It's not a protection matter. Unless the child was having nightmares and uncontrollably peed herself.

There has been times where she has been scared of someone breaking into her home and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-16-2017, 05:51 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,086
Posted By tunnelight
I was actually on the edge until I read Ottawa...

I was actually on the edge until I read Ottawa dad's reply.
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-16-2017, 05:49 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,086
Posted By tunnelight
That's like saying it's okay to let your children...

That's like saying it's okay to let your children watch 18+ movies with violence and killing and robbing because of the lessons they will learn from it.

Again, the question is not, and the concern...
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