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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:25 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 308
Posted By Rioe
If you have 50% of the time with the child, the...

If you have 50% of the time with the child, the judge is going to order offset CS. Your ex can't just refuse that. I assume that's why you're going to court? As your income is so much higher than...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 01:07 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 188
Posted By Rioe
So you were married, had children and separated,...

So you were married, had children and separated, complete with separation agreement, but then basically had a dating relationship for a couple of years after that, while sharing the children. Now,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-19-2018, 04:16 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 161
Posted By Rioe
So what amount of time do you think the kids ARE...

So what amount of time do you think the kids ARE at your house when the order says they should be at Mom's? Is there a regular pattern to these things, that would lend itself to just being called a...
Forum: General Chat 01-18-2018, 10:23 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 223
Posted By Rioe
Haha, that's sort of what I do! I don't base...

Haha, that's sort of what I do! I don't base allowance completely on chores because I want them to learn money management and that chores are a part of life, but the base amount is small and they can...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-18-2018, 12:34 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 425
Posted By Rioe
Make an offer like this, with this logic. ...

Make an offer like this, with this logic.

Your table CS for $110k income is $2078.
Full-time minimum wage is around $31k now. CS for that is $645.
So offset would be that you pay her 2078 - 645...
Forum: Divorce Support 01-16-2018, 10:54 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 667
Posted By Rioe
Depends on the nature of your job, and the...

Depends on the nature of your job, and the personalities of your children, I would think, as well as your own personality. Most people cope best when they have balance between both work and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-16-2018, 10:30 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 209
Posted By Rioe
Well, when you win in court over this simple...

Well, when you win in court over this simple thing, then she'll certainly be under obligation, AND have to pay all your legal costs. Keep track of them! Also make sure you document the offer to...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-14-2018, 11:48 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 88
Posted By Rioe
I think so, unless the person had a will that...

I think so, unless the person had a will that specified that non-joint items should go to other people. Though you can and should immediately change your beneficiary on any life insurance policy or...
Forum: General Chat 01-14-2018, 01:09 PM
Replies: 103
Views: 2,931
Posted By Rioe
Let me try to come at this differently. Men and...

Let me try to come at this differently. Men and women are both perfectly capable of being good parents/nurturers. Why is it that more men than women are seemingly disinterested in doing so?
Forum: General Chat 01-13-2018, 11:41 AM
Replies: 103
Views: 2,931
Posted By Rioe
[/QUOTE] But even your bit here supports...

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But even your bit here supports what I'm saying; that all genders are equally capable of learning good parenting/nurturing skills, however men are held back by social judgment that begins...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-12-2018, 03:26 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 673
Posted By Rioe
Agreed, I think you need to figure out what their...

Agreed, I think you need to figure out what their objections are, and discuss it with them. Be firm that you are the adult and they are the kids, but you want to provide everything they need to make...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-11-2018, 10:56 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 134
Posted By Rioe
I have always been confused about the method the...

I have always been confused about the method the courts use, primarily as it seems to vary between judges.

Objectively, below is the fairest method, which I've never heard of a court using. But...
Forum: General Chat 01-10-2018, 12:29 PM
Replies: 103
Views: 2,931
Posted By Rioe
I'm getting the impression you are deliberately...

I'm getting the impression you are deliberately not seeing my point. All I've ever said is that women are presently given a big head start on learning nurturing skills as girls, while men are held...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-10-2018, 12:08 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 629
Posted By Rioe
The child is in school and lives with one parent....

The child is in school and lives with one parent. Legally, she is not expected to fully support herself as her focus is supposed to be school, not employment.

s7 is the cost of education (tuition,...
Forum: General Chat 01-10-2018, 11:49 AM
Replies: 103
Views: 2,931
Posted By Rioe
My question was, and why is that something we...

My question was, and why is that something we only need to teach boys and not girls and whether it was a skewed mindset we (or rather some people) have of men as a society .[/QUOTE]

Of course all...
Forum: General Chat 01-08-2018, 07:04 PM
Replies: 103
Views: 2,931
Posted By Rioe
Me too! I know I can be wordy, and sometimes...

Me too! I know I can be wordy, and sometimes meaning is lost.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-08-2018, 01:09 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 347
Posted By Rioe
Of course. Next time she says anything like that,...

Of course. Next time she says anything like that, remind her of her sickeningly sweet “let’s do this without lawyers as far as we can, we’ll be fair to each other” statement and ask if her refusal to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-07-2018, 06:15 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 347
Posted By Rioe
You'd think that, but by the system that governs...

You'd think that, but by the system that governs bank accounts, if the mom was joint account holder, which it sounds like she was, then legally half the money is the kids and half is hers. And...
Forum: General Chat 01-07-2018, 06:06 PM
Replies: 103
Views: 2,931
Posted By Rioe
I do consider that society already teaches girls...

I do consider that society already teaches girls parenting skills far more than boys, yes. "No, dolls are for girls, here's a truck" and so on. Boys are still (generally) discouraged from learning...
Forum: General Chat 01-07-2018, 09:58 AM
Replies: 103
Views: 2,931
Posted By Rioe
In a couple of years when it goes to trial, we'll...

In a couple of years when it goes to trial, we'll learn more. And if he's convicted, we'll learn even more in a decade or two when he is eligible for parole.



I would speculate that he didn't...
Forum: Introductions 01-04-2018, 04:37 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 537
Posted By Rioe
I'm just going to add some observations as you...

I'm just going to add some observations as you mention things that make me think. You've made some mistakes, but it's not too late to correct them.



Being separated for so long without a...
Forum: General Chat 01-04-2018, 11:54 AM
Replies: 103
Views: 2,931
Posted By Rioe
This is a man who hated his ex more than he loved...

This is a man who hated his ex more than he loved his children. Add in some significant turmoil (losing his job, in the process of being evicted, his power being turned off) and likely depression,...
Forum: Divorce Support 12-29-2017, 12:52 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 378
Posted By Rioe
It can mean more than you think, especially in...

It can mean more than you think, especially in the event of your death. Your ex might get some of your assets, even if you don't want him to! Even if you have a will or separation agreement saying...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-23-2017, 05:49 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 599
Posted By Rioe
Forget all the history then, and just think about...

Forget all the history then, and just think about what is fair moving forward.
Canada is huge. Is she moving close to where you are, that would make a more regular access schedule work, or is she...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-20-2017, 10:45 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 317
Posted By Rioe
You'd have to sit down and do some math to make...

You'd have to sit down and do some math to make that decision. We can't tell you if it's worth it without knowing you and your ex's incomes, and your ex's level of cooperativeness.

But you have...
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