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Forum: Reference 02-06-2018, 02:40 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 157
Posted By piggybanktoex
AND that is why Family Law sucks......there...

AND that is why Family Law sucks......there should have been no basic or ability to even go to court over such a stupid thing......
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2018, 11:56 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 248
Posted By piggybanktoex
Talk to a lawyer. But relax a bit. I...

Talk to a lawyer.

But relax a bit.

I assume that you have had the kids 50-50 for several years now. Read status quo. That should deal with full table CS issue.

She has to prove needed...
Forum: Political Issues 02-01-2018, 12:33 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 440
Posted By piggybanktoex
A lot of the conflict in divorce is because of CS...

A lot of the conflict in divorce is because of CS & SS.

50%-50% should allow for both parents to work, reducing or (ideally) no support payments and a more equal child support payment.

My one...
Forum: Political Issues 01-31-2018, 02:14 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 440
Posted By piggybanktoex
When my wife asked for a divorce, she already had...

When my wife asked for a divorce, she already had a honey in a distant location. She was happy to go 50%-50% without a word. It was just assumed.

Fast forward 6 months when she figured out that...
Forum: General Chat 01-30-2018, 09:23 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 220
Posted By piggybanktoex
Divorce papers in 2010....Payments end in 2027 ...

Divorce papers in 2010....Payments end in 2027

Fair, eh?
Forum: General Chat 01-15-2018, 04:48 PM
Replies: 103
Views: 3,306
Posted By piggybanktoex
Maybe it's because the men need to remain...

Maybe it's because the men need to remain productive at work in order to support the major percentage of the costs of two households.

I was lucky that that wasn't a concern as status quo was...
Forum: Political Issues 01-15-2018, 04:41 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 571
Posted By piggybanktoex
DEANNA DAWN, that's what happens when you marry...

DEANNA DAWN, that's what happens when you marry someone with a name like that.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-15-2018, 04:38 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 215
Posted By piggybanktoex
Pick your battles....this ain't one of them. ...

Pick your battles....this ain't one of them.

Not worth the up-hill battle.

Ask for July. Much more normal and harder to argue about.

I had to deal with the exact same thing.
Forum: Divorce Support 01-14-2018, 06:17 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 387
Posted By piggybanktoex
YUP....what Links said. Don't imagine that...

YUP....what Links said.

Don't imagine that having kids would be the answer to everything.

Take care of yourself too.

She certainly will take care of herself, as she should.
Forum: Divorce Support 01-13-2018, 07:21 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 387
Posted By piggybanktoex
Arabian, A simple poll will breakdown as...

Arabian,

A simple poll will breakdown as follows:

Those that pay - UNFAIR $

Those that take - NOT ENOUGH $

Right or wrong, that will be the general feeling.
Forum: Divorce Support 01-13-2018, 06:14 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 387
Posted By piggybanktoex
Just figure out what is what according to Family...

Just figure out what is what according to Family Law, AND then just decide if you want to give her more.

Life is not simple and she could have left earlier, and would have if she wanted to have...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-12-2018, 09:14 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 269
Posted By piggybanktoex
Leave it buried in the corporation and use money...

Leave it buried in the corporation and use money to help kids directly when needed.

Also agree, marriage once was enough.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-10-2018, 12:47 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 368
Posted By piggybanktoex
Sad that he has to hide HIS money......good luck...

Sad that he has to hide HIS money......good luck in your search.

Or maybe earn your own money......just a thought.

I wish I had hid money......especially since I was accused of that with no...
Forum: General Chat 01-10-2018, 12:08 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 238
Posted By piggybanktoex
For the payor (mainly men) the divorce isn't...

For the payor (mainly men) the divorce isn't final until the last payment.

I will consider myself truly divorced in 2027. That's 18 years after the paperwork that said I was divorced.
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-10-2018, 12:02 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 820
Posted By piggybanktoex
I love my GF of the last 10 years, but after the...

I love my GF of the last 10 years, but after the divorce I had, I am not interested in living together or (God Forbid) ever getting married again.

My income was reduced by 3/4 after all the damage...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-07-2018, 10:44 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 385
Posted By piggybanktoex
What really sucked for me was, even as I...

What really sucked for me was, even as I described in detail what her extreme demands meant to my life, my career, my business and my ability to make an income to pay her and support the kids....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-07-2018, 10:31 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 505
Posted By piggybanktoex
WOW, just WOW.

WOW, just WOW.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-07-2018, 03:16 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 385
Posted By piggybanktoex
Lawyer up and defend yourself......nobody else...

Lawyer up and defend yourself......nobody else will.

Demand 50-50% with kids, pay only what you should, and not more than you need to.

Spend up front with a lawyer, and not for years after...
Forum: General Chat 01-06-2018, 03:04 PM
Replies: 103
Views: 3,306
Posted By piggybanktoex
As stated, my opinion only.....and there could be...

As stated, my opinion only.....and there could be other factors, including evil, I suppose. I will stand by my point of view as a valid version until and if we learn more. Which I doubt we will.
...
Forum: General Chat 01-06-2018, 02:00 PM
Replies: 103
Views: 3,306
Posted By piggybanktoex
While completely disagreeing with the whole tone...

While completely disagreeing with the whole tone of Triton comments concerning this tragic event, I can see where the incredible stress of divorce, support, CS, parental alienation, ex-spouse...
Forum: General Chat 01-05-2018, 12:33 PM
Replies: 103
Views: 3,306
Posted By piggybanktoex
Trinton, Maybe dial that back a bit (or a...

Trinton,

Maybe dial that back a bit (or a lot)! I'm bitter too, but not completely over the edge.

The sad part is that most mothers who behave that way actually think they are in the right.
...
Forum: General Chat 01-05-2018, 11:42 AM
Replies: 103
Views: 3,306
Posted By piggybanktoex
Nobody kills their kids and then attempts suicide...

Nobody kills their kids and then attempts suicide who is in their right mind.

With crushing CS, loss of access, job loss, powerlessness and poverty and possible depression, no wonder his mind...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-02-2018, 05:10 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,876
Posted By piggybanktoex
And let's not get caught up in the sports car...

And let's not get caught up in the sports car thing.......Dads worry about bills, kids, school, and everything else a woman thinks about too.

Actually it was my ex who bought the sports car while...
Forum: Introductions 01-02-2018, 05:05 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 669
Posted By piggybanktoex
Why not 50-50 on kids.....?

Why not 50-50 on kids.....?
Forum: Divorce Support 01-01-2018, 03:17 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 441
Posted By piggybanktoex
My divorce was granted in 2010, but the real end...

My divorce was granted in 2010, but the real end date is 2027 when the support payments end. How's that for a bloody symbol.

My divorce lasted as long as the damn marriage. :mad::(
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