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Forum: General Chat 02-06-2018, 12:45 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 652
Posted By Rioe
Mmmm, I put raisins in my vanilla maggots. I...

Mmmm, I put raisins in my vanilla maggots. I wonder if the kids would eat it if I called it that?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2018, 01:41 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 398
Posted By Rioe
You want to make this transition to living in two...

You want to make this transition to living in two houses as smooth as possible for the children, so moving two hours away from almost everything they've ever known is not the way to do it. To reduce...
Forum: General Chat 02-02-2018, 09:26 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 652
Posted By Rioe
Sounds about like mine! It would be much less if...

Sounds about like mine! It would be much less if I didn't have to throw out so much that got rejected by my picky eaters.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-26-2018, 10:00 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 255
Posted By Rioe
The spouses each walk away with the same net...

The spouses each walk away with the same net worth increase over the course of the marriage. That can be shared out any way they both agree on.

The two main exceptions to this are:


The full...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-25-2018, 03:00 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 536
Posted By Rioe
If you have her income imputed already, it should...

If you have her income imputed already, it should cover all purposes (offset CS and s7 calculations).


As for summer camps, perhaps you could put a cap on amounts?


"Summer camps will be s7...
Forum: Divorce Support 01-23-2018, 06:16 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 499
Posted By Rioe
It might be worth a try. Bring the birth...

It might be worth a try. Bring the birth certificates that have you listed as their father and explain that their mother isn't able to do this right now and you hope they can help you. You only want...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-23-2018, 11:36 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 486
Posted By Rioe
I've never had a case conference, so I hope some...

I've never had a case conference, so I hope some of the more experienced in court people come to answer soon, but as far as I know, it's just a meeting with both sides and a judge. The judge...
Forum: Divorce Support 01-22-2018, 04:50 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 499
Posted By Rioe
The high road is not about caving in to...

The high road is not about caving in to unreasonable demands; it's about staying above the mud-slinging and being firm in your convictions if they are reasonable and fair.


It sounds like you are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-22-2018, 04:35 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 393
Posted By Rioe
Do all of it. Highlight the parts - this is what...

Do all of it. Highlight the parts - this is what I agree with, this is what I don't accept and here is what I propose instead. After enough back and forth like this, hopefully you will get nearer to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-21-2018, 08:42 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 527
Posted By Rioe
I don't think the distance/time to get the kids...

I don't think the distance/time to get the kids to school and back is the issue though. The problem is that that's ALL the mom does. She doesn't let them do after-school activities, or get together...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-20-2018, 09:25 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 413
Posted By Rioe
If you have 50% of the time with the child, the...

If you have 50% of the time with the child, the judge is going to order offset CS. Your ex can't just refuse that. I assume that's why you're going to court? As your income is so much higher than...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-20-2018, 01:07 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 238
Posted By Rioe
So you were married, had children and separated,...

So you were married, had children and separated, complete with separation agreement, but then basically had a dating relationship for a couple of years after that, while sharing the children. Now,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-19-2018, 04:16 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 527
Posted By Rioe
So what amount of time do you think the kids ARE...

So what amount of time do you think the kids ARE at your house when the order says they should be at Mom's? Is there a regular pattern to these things, that would lend itself to just being called a...
Forum: General Chat 01-18-2018, 10:23 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 346
Posted By Rioe
Haha, that's sort of what I do! I don't base...

Haha, that's sort of what I do! I don't base allowance completely on chores because I want them to learn money management and that chores are a part of life, but the base amount is small and they can...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-18-2018, 12:34 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 554
Posted By Rioe
Make an offer like this, with this logic. ...

Make an offer like this, with this logic.

Your table CS for $110k income is $2078.
Full-time minimum wage is around $31k now. CS for that is $645.
So offset would be that you pay her 2078 - 645...
Forum: Divorce Support 01-16-2018, 10:54 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 896
Posted By Rioe
Depends on the nature of your job, and the...

Depends on the nature of your job, and the personalities of your children, I would think, as well as your own personality. Most people cope best when they have balance between both work and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-16-2018, 10:30 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 263
Posted By Rioe
Well, when you win in court over this simple...

Well, when you win in court over this simple thing, then she'll certainly be under obligation, AND have to pay all your legal costs. Keep track of them! Also make sure you document the offer to...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-14-2018, 11:48 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 130
Posted By Rioe
I think so, unless the person had a will that...

I think so, unless the person had a will that specified that non-joint items should go to other people. Though you can and should immediately change your beneficiary on any life insurance policy or...
Forum: General Chat 01-14-2018, 01:09 PM
Replies: 103
Views: 3,315
Posted By Rioe
Let me try to come at this differently. Men and...

Let me try to come at this differently. Men and women are both perfectly capable of being good parents/nurturers. Why is it that more men than women are seemingly disinterested in doing so?
Forum: General Chat 01-13-2018, 11:41 AM
Replies: 103
Views: 3,315
Posted By Rioe
[/QUOTE] But even your bit here supports...

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But even your bit here supports what I'm saying; that all genders are equally capable of learning good parenting/nurturing skills, however men are held back by social judgment that begins...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-12-2018, 03:26 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 823
Posted By Rioe
Agreed, I think you need to figure out what their...

Agreed, I think you need to figure out what their objections are, and discuss it with them. Be firm that you are the adult and they are the kids, but you want to provide everything they need to make...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-11-2018, 10:56 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 169
Posted By Rioe
I have always been confused about the method the...

I have always been confused about the method the courts use, primarily as it seems to vary between judges.

Objectively, below is the fairest method, which I've never heard of a court using. But...
Forum: General Chat 01-10-2018, 12:29 PM
Replies: 103
Views: 3,315
Posted By Rioe
I'm getting the impression you are deliberately...

I'm getting the impression you are deliberately not seeing my point. All I've ever said is that women are presently given a big head start on learning nurturing skills as girls, while men are held...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-10-2018, 12:08 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 683
Posted By Rioe
The child is in school and lives with one parent....

The child is in school and lives with one parent. Legally, she is not expected to fully support herself as her focus is supposed to be school, not employment.

s7 is the cost of education (tuition,...
Forum: General Chat 01-10-2018, 11:49 AM
Replies: 103
Views: 3,315
Posted By Rioe
My question was, and why is that something we...

My question was, and why is that something we only need to teach boys and not girls and whether it was a skewed mindset we (or rather some people) have of men as a society .[/QUOTE]

Of course all...
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