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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-18-2014, 02:52 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 759
Posted By me_vs_HCF
It's all on email. Hundreds and hundreds of...

It's all on email. Hundreds and hundreds of emails, tons of freak outs and emails that contradict each other. We don't talk in person or on phone, or otherwise for at least a year and a half now. I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-18-2014, 01:49 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,683
Posted By me_vs_HCF
I'd be putting that request in the ignore pile. ...

I'd be putting that request in the ignore pile.

Does he has first right of refusal for child care? i.e. if he isn't working he gets the choice to take the kids as opposed to a sitter.....
Forum: Political Issues 06-18-2014, 01:45 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 2,770
Posted By me_vs_HCF
I'm in the income bracket where I can support two...

I'm in the income bracket where I can support two modest households, but why should I?

She is capable and not stupid, yet has only ever managed to work 17 hours a week in the last 3 years.

It...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-18-2014, 01:25 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 759
Posted By me_vs_HCF
I'll try that route.... not sure how to get her...

I'll try that route.... not sure how to get her to it. If she just ignores me as usual, can I request it via court?




Looked it up tonight - University dorm rooms are $80 a night for a 2 room...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-18-2014, 01:18 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 759
Posted By me_vs_HCF
She moved away the day I told her it was over....

She moved away the day I told her it was over. She said she would share the driving, and never did. That was in 2011, and I've been driving it ever since - 50,000 km a year on my car, between son and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2014, 02:00 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 759
Posted By me_vs_HCF
Thank you for the advice, allow me to add some...

Thank you for the advice, allow me to add some details:

She took him 300km away, and I didn't file a motion, so he lives out of town, I'm responsible for all transportation in the final...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-17-2014, 12:40 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 759
Posted By me_vs_HCF
Question ex overriding final agreement

How best to handle?

Hi all,

I received final divorce on consent in early 2014. Took 2+ years, so I was happy to have things over.

There are already issues, and I’m trying to figure out how...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2013, 02:47 PM
Replies: 40
Views: 3,273
Posted By me_vs_HCF
I think you're preaching to the choir :D

I think you're preaching to the choir :D
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2013, 09:56 AM
Replies: 40
Views: 3,273
Posted By me_vs_HCF
If are two things I have learnt in these forums: ...

If are two things I have learnt in these forums:

1. Don't take, or stress about any legal advice from your ex or her lawyer. They can say anything they want, and it means squat. Her lawyer is...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-03-2013, 03:44 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,083
Posted By me_vs_HCF
You just blew my mind, and re-framed things...

You just blew my mind, and re-framed things financially for me.

ex wants a 25-75 split of assets. I was holding firm on 50/50

I never thought of it that way before, but suddenly the few...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-03-2013, 09:36 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 840
Posted By me_vs_HCF
The MIP session I attended was set up as...

The MIP session I attended was set up as "applicants night". From what I was told, they hold separate nights for applicants and respondents, to prevent any incidents I'll assume.

There were about...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-22-2013, 08:49 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,616
Posted By me_vs_HCF
Agreed. I thought the same thing about 30 seconds...

Agreed. I thought the same thing about 30 seconds after I moved away from computer



Agreed, as well.

I'd offer to keep my bio, and no child support payment required from mom in exchange....
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-22-2013, 08:15 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,616
Posted By me_vs_HCF
My advice is don't let her move. I let me...

My advice is don't let her move.

I let me stbx move, 300km away, and regret the decision, because of the TIME I have lost with my son.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-22-2013, 01:44 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 553
Posted By me_vs_HCF
the saga continues

Three weeks into stop Spousal till people get real, the sabre-rattling letters from stbx's lawyer continue.

Threats of motions, full court costs, sudden claims that a joint insolvency wasn't ...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-22-2013, 11:28 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 964
Posted By me_vs_HCF
Totally agree with you Bithunter. I've had...

Totally agree with you Bithunter.

I've had my ex's lawyer ranting and raving (case conference, countless letters) about:

my substantial underpayment on voluntary support that i have given for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-21-2013, 02:10 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 429
Posted By me_vs_HCF
excellent!!! :D Thanks

excellent!!! :D

Thanks
Forum: Divorce Support 09-21-2013, 12:21 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 822
Posted By me_vs_HCF
She is not a money/ numbers person at all, never...

She is not a money/ numbers person at all, never ever, not even slightly. I am. She had never been responsible for any bills in her life before our divorce, etc, etc. I do imagine its all rather...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-20-2013, 09:36 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 822
Posted By me_vs_HCF
i like that... makes sense to me. She is...

i like that... makes sense to me. She is rejecting any imputation, wants to be a stay at home mom. I'll let her "tell it to the judge"...The CC judge had harsh words for her about her desires not to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-20-2013, 09:32 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 429
Posted By me_vs_HCF
Done already... but still disputes it (tell it...

Done already... but still disputes it (tell it to the judge i say). she'd dispute the colour of the sky, if it might get her more money lol

but any thoughts on having a divorce ordered at 1st...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-20-2013, 08:24 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 822
Posted By me_vs_HCF
Just ranting :) I married my ex when i was a...

Just ranting :)

I married my ex when i was a point in my life when i thought that if someone liked the same music as me, and liked to have sex, that would be enough :rolleyes:

God was I wrong
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-20-2013, 05:44 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 429
Posted By me_vs_HCF
divorce at motion?

I'm pretty sure that stbx is filing motion for support. I had stopped paying spousal support, to get her to be realistic on her support demands.

We've been separated 2 years, paid lots of...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-20-2013, 12:53 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 822
Posted By me_vs_HCF
Thumbs down Games without ending

Ugggg- when will it ever end, a rant.

Been separated for 2 years, and ex has fought with me about everything! I mean everything... Custody, overnight access, transportation, me going to doctors...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-07-2013, 02:17 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 909
Posted By me_vs_HCF
i wish we could trade problems... you can go to...

i wish we could trade problems... you can go to court for me, and ill ignore your ex wife :D
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-07-2013, 10:50 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 909
Posted By me_vs_HCF
i got the debt calls too

I had a few bill collectors start calling my cell for stbx's NEW non-joint, post separation debt.

Everytime they called, I told them I was her ex husband, I told them that we have not lived...
Forum: General Chat 09-04-2013, 02:47 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,946
Posted By me_vs_HCF
Yup, watch them both! I'll only date women...

Yup, watch them both!

I'll only date women who are financially independent/ responsible now. ie the material possessions roughly match the income level
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