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Forum: Divorce Support 02-15-2018, 07:22 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 679
just typical mud-slinging. By getting upset...

just typical mud-slinging.

By getting upset you are giving him what he wants. You are focusing on the lies instead of just dismissing them. Focus on the actual issues.
Forum: General Chat 02-08-2018, 09:24 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 316
to me once and a while being under 10 minutes...

to me once and a while being under 10 minutes late should not be a big deal. On the flip side if you are habitually late (more then 50% of the time) then I can see why there would be some...
Forum: Common Law Issues 02-07-2018, 05:36 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 244
I don't think you will lose your kids. She may...

I don't think you will lose your kids. She may get limited parenting time. The fact that you have status quo is a major point in your favour. Try not to stress to much. She doesn't have much of a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2018, 03:41 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 874
I am joint on all my mothers accounts and...

I am joint on all my mothers accounts and investments. I dont have anything to do with the accounts, its just for estate purposes when she passes but my name is right there with hers.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2018, 11:02 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 232
you have a signed separation agreement that...

you have a signed separation agreement that should of dealt with the child custody and SS.

Your ex is a lawyer and you are an automotive tech so I figure she makes more then you do so why does she...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2018, 06:15 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 389
Then he says she abandoned the kids. Not a good...

Then he says she abandoned the kids. Not a good idea.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-04-2018, 02:16 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 389
Okay by moving the kids two hours away you are...

Okay by moving the kids two hours away you are removing them from their fathers life and regulating him to EOW. Would you be okay with leaving the kids with him and you seeing them EOW? If not then...
Forum: General Chat 02-03-2018, 08:55 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 639
go to a butcher shop for meat. Buy larger cuts...

go to a butcher shop for meat. Buy larger cuts that you can cut to the size you like and freeze it. Buy other stuff in bulk or the largest size when possible, just keep an eye on price per grams to...
Forum: Introductions 01-21-2018, 01:54 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 362
how long were you married for?

how long were you married for?
Forum: Introductions 01-21-2018, 10:16 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 362
first you have to prove you are entitled to SS....

first you have to prove you are entitled to SS. Just because she makes more doesnt make it a guarantee. You havent needed it for the last 2.5 years so you would be hard pressed to prove you need it....
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-19-2018, 03:27 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 510
you meant that it is no longer working for the...

you meant that it is no longer working for the kids right?

You should of done something when she first moved so that is a dead end. You do have some hope due to the age of the kids though. They...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-15-2018, 04:34 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 219
if your name is also on the house then there is...

if your name is also on the house then there is nothing stopping you asking for a print out of what it would be to end the mortgage on a certain date. She does not need to be there for that.

I did...
Forum: Divorce Support 01-13-2018, 03:24 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 377
how much equity are you talking about?

how much equity are you talking about?
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-04-2018, 09:01 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 324
you need to set boundries and stick to them. If...

you need to set boundries and stick to them. If they wont obey your curfew then take their house keys or change the locks. If they are not home by a certain time then they are locked out. Make sure...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-30-2017, 12:32 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 461
so basically the 18k was a claw back for the...

so basically the 18k was a claw back for the money that sunlife paid you after CPP paid you retroactively. To me that makes the money a wash.
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-23-2017, 06:04 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 672
you are contradicting yourself. First you say it...

you are contradicting yourself. First you say it wasnt a court order and she volunteered to do it.

it was no judge handing down any judgement except the green light that she can move

now you...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-23-2017, 02:12 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 672
why do I have a feeling he made a deal with the...

why do I have a feeling he made a deal with the mother that she could move the child and he wouldn't fight it if she didnt ask for CS?
Forum: Financial Issues 12-22-2017, 12:33 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,864
oh wow this is why some men believe women are...

oh wow this is why some men believe women are parasites. All you are worried about is the $$$$.

You have a good income, even with 50/50 he will most likely be paying you offset CS. You may have to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-22-2017, 05:34 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 672
But was it a reduction in 's due to travel costs?

But was it a reduction in 's due to travel costs?
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-21-2017, 09:53 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 397
I would offer him first and last months rent....

I would offer him first and last months rent. What you are offering is to pay for him to live somewhere else and there is no inventive to find work as long as you pay his rent.
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-20-2017, 04:23 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 397
tough love approach. You think he will get better...

tough love approach. You think he will get better with age but he may just get better at manipulating you. You dont think he is using drugs or drinking but you also didnt know he dropped out of...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-19-2017, 08:37 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 672
did you get a reduction in CS due to the costs...

did you get a reduction in CS due to the costs for travelling to see your child?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-16-2017, 05:47 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 382
I agree with arabian..until you are served papers...

I agree with arabian..until you are served papers dont stress over it.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-03-2017, 06:07 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 826
I seriously doubt you have to worry about that....

I seriously doubt you have to worry about that. The cost and the beating his body would take every weekend with the travelling would deter him from doing that. What you could do is say every other...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-03-2017, 11:48 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 551
hmm so the only common denominator between the 5...

hmm so the only common denominator between the 5 kids is mom. Maybe the bigger issue is something to do with mom and not so much parental conflict? Maybe dad reported something to CAS and that why...
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