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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-18-2017, 11:27 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 271
Posted By freckles1234
See thats the thing, we aren't planning on going...

See thats the thing, we aren't planning on going back to court to make the agreement official but I worry if she claims status quo and you just verified my worries that it could go to her although if...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-18-2017, 11:13 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 271
Posted By freckles1234
Help with time

Hi All,

I have a question about who gets time allocated to them.

My ex and I have 50/50 placement (The order says she has custody with 10 pages pretty much taking away all her rights to make...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-06-2017, 02:32 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 217
Posted By freckles1234
Intent to Disobey court order

My ex and I came to an agreement in December 2016 and filed with the court January 2017 and made into an order. The order states that each child will be permitted 1 extracurricular and will attend...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-26-2017, 05:31 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 412
Posted By freckles1234
It is different then what we signed. I read and...

It is different then what we signed. I read and reread and reread again before I signed it. Unfortunately I received that paperwork that my lawyer accepted the draft order and signed off on it..
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-26-2017, 05:28 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 497
Posted By freckles1234
When you were together did she stay home to raise...

When you were together did she stay home to raise the children? Was she working prior to marrying you? Did she have to sacrifice because of being with you? These are all important questions for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-17-2017, 05:43 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 412
Posted By freckles1234
I didn't even think about that part. Do you...

I didn't even think about that part.

Do you know if there is a way to have this changed? It is already made a final order.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-17-2017, 04:53 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 412
Posted By freckles1234
Child Support Order

The last piece of my case has been finalized. We have agreed on 50/50 and as such, agreed to offset child support. Our lawyers wrote up the final minutes of settlement and it was signed back in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-26-2017, 10:47 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 358
Posted By freckles1234
I had a social worker. She was not knowledgeable...

I had a social worker. She was not knowledgeable in family law nor did she care about case law. She basically had a meeting with my ex, had a meeting with myself, saw the kids in exes care, saw the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-20-2017, 11:12 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 975
Posted By freckles1234
I believe you then just need to file as a new...

I believe you then just need to file as a new case in court and not have to prove any change in circumstance.

At that point, you can ask for whatever you want. I would file for 50/50 and state...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-20-2017, 10:43 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 975
Posted By freckles1234
Has your separation agreement been filed with the...

Has your separation agreement been filed with the court?

If it has:

You need to file a motion to change based on the changed status quo. You need to find ways to prove you have had the time...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-07-2017, 04:26 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,382
Posted By freckles1234
Janus I think we both know there is a HUGE...

Janus I think we both know there is a HUGE difference between taking your kid out for 1 day for a special event at the end of the school year and missing school every day. In fact if they started...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-07-2017, 03:07 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,382
Posted By freckles1234
Where was the bitterness and judgement? The...

Where was the bitterness and judgement?

The kids deserve and are entitled to have 2 parents. Just because you and you ex separated doesn't make him any less their parent. Be thankful he gave you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-02-2017, 01:09 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,002
Posted By freckles1234
We had an OCL that recommended custody to my ex...

We had an OCL that recommended custody to my ex even thought hey had 59 lates by March last year... She said the mother is trying and she believes will be better.

We ended up 50/50 on consent and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-02-2017, 11:06 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 433
Posted By freckles1234
I still cant figure out how to break this in to...

I still cant figure out how to break this in to different quotes..

Yes tutoring is necessary. My 13 year old has dyslexia, my 12 year old is reading at a grade 2 level and my 9 year old can't...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-02-2017, 10:27 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 433
Posted By freckles1234
She is WELL aware that I will not be paying for...

She is WELL aware that I will not be paying for it. That isn't even a question. I did not agree and she has tried 3 times to get me to pay and I have refused again letting her know that I may...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-02-2017, 09:11 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 433
Posted By freckles1234
It has the typical the parties will discuss and...

It has the typical the parties will discuss and agree on any section 7 expenses. If the parties do not agree, the party registering the child will be responsible for the cost.

That is it.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-31-2017, 04:16 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 433
Posted By freckles1234
This is a private tutor that comes to her house...

This is a private tutor that comes to her house and to be honest in 2 years, I haven't seen a difference. I would be happy to pay towards a proper tutor but my ex is fixed on this one.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-31-2017, 03:49 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 433
Posted By freckles1234
Sorry let me clarify, I am not asking in regards...

Sorry let me clarify, I am not asking in regards to paying the costs for it. I am asking because our court order states:

The children shall be permitted to be involved in at least 1 activity at...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-31-2017, 03:26 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 433
Posted By freckles1234
Is tutoring an extra curricular activity?

Is tutoring considered an extra curricular activity?
Forum: General Chat 05-26-2017, 04:31 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,315
Posted By freckles1234
Thanks for the laugh! I hope you get that sex...

Thanks for the laugh! I hope you get that sex change procedure stuff sorted out!
Forum: General Chat 05-24-2017, 01:04 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,356
Posted By freckles1234
There are smooth service providers. For example,...

There are smooth service providers. For example, a friend of mine was in a similar situation but he had 2 kids. Both on new wifes benefits. His ex went to the eye dr and got glasses and had them bill...
Forum: General Chat 05-24-2017, 10:30 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,356
Posted By freckles1234
I am not holding their benefits hostage, I was...

I am not holding their benefits hostage, I was asking if she would need it as I have never dealt with Ontario works so I have no idea what they cover. Also, my ex is the type who will try to pretend...
Forum: General Chat 05-23-2017, 05:40 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,356
Posted By freckles1234
New Spouse Medical Benefits

My ex has been on Ontario Works for 11 years and I have no reason to believe that will change anytime soon. She has certain "benefits" through them (i.e. prescriptions, eye care, dental, etc) that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-23-2017, 12:20 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 650
Posted By freckles1234
Ahh thats the thing, she follows the court order...

Ahh thats the thing, she follows the court order when it is working for her, then does what she pleases when it doesn't. It is a very sad situation however I will not force my son. Will she cry...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-23-2017, 10:54 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 650
Posted By freckles1234
That would be ideal however that just wouldn't...

That would be ideal however that just wouldn't work. Unfortunately his mom feels that her time is her time and she can make them do whatever she wants. She is all about power and control. I would...
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