Trying to figure out how much of my pension is the ex entitled to and do I have to give her the money now.
We were married for 16 years and have 3 children under 15 years of age.
We have split everything else, cars, home, furniture etc amicably but she wants half of my pension.
Am I obligated to give her half of its value ($190,000 so half is 95 K) now ?
Can I make her wait the 17 years that I will have to wait before I get it. I also will not get a lump sum , I will get monthly payments.
This is the most confusing part. Can anyone here simplify it for me ???
We were married for 16 years and have 3 children under 15 years of age.
We have split everything else, cars, home, furniture etc amicably but she wants half of my pension.
Am I obligated to give her half of its value ($190,000 so half is 95 K) now ?
Can I make her wait the 17 years that I will have to wait before I get it. I also will not get a lump sum , I will get monthly payments.
This is the most confusing part. Can anyone here simplify it for me ???
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