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  • Dad's deserve to have custody of their spawn

    I feel this site should be named Dad's Rights,as from what I have been reading here it is about not going to the courts and getting the money that the children and ex-wife are entitled to. Also allowing men who have abused their wives should still be allowed to see the children they beat and abused...
    Men still receive more money for the same work and still come home and expect their women to be the slaves to their everything,when she finally gets a brain and throws him out they all act like they really always loved the children but in reality when they are living at home they could care less.Interesting. This is not a site for women.Especially not first wives..

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    No this site is for people to get help or discuss options and try to find answers, Not all women care about the monet they are intiltled too , and not all father are DEADBEATS, your situation is yours, and you have a lot of issues but man bashing is not the answer,, I am a "second Wife" and stand behind my husband 100% and you bet i wish he did not have to pay his ex a dime I would rather put the Money in an RESP so the kids will benifit not there mother, you can call me selfish!!

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    • #3
      This Shelda person has to be moderated. She's out of control.

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      • #4
        Yikes, the use of the word 'spawn' dropped things even lower.

        Shelda, I'd recommend seeing a therapist to talk through the anger. If you're willing to rip people apart for providing you with honest & forthright responses, then one has to wonder what you are saying out loud in your own home.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Kimberley View Post
          Shelda, I'd recommend seeing a therapist to talk through the anger. If you're willing to rip people apart for providing you with honest & forthright responses, then one has to wonder what you are saying out loud in your own home.
          Echo here, God help those kids.

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          • #6
            Shelda,

            Given your anger, both toward your ex and the people on this site, whom you have just met, I doubt the reality of your perspective of your current life, your kids and your ex. You are unreasonable to the extreme. You lash out when someone responds to your views in a way that tells you you may not be acting appropriately for the best interests of your children, your ex, or yourself.

            It seems different types of people (1st divorce, blended family, joint custody, shared custody, male, female) on this site have found your attitude to be out of step with both the courts and the collective common sense in this forum.

            You have been the most exciting thing to happen since I joined this forum, like a bull in a China shop. But the reality for you is that you have a family, this is a tough time for you and them, and your ex, and you have come here, unfortunately I think more for vindication, than advice.

            You have two choices as I see it.
            1. You can continue on your path which it seems most people on this forum that have responded to you feel is misguided and unhealthy for you and your family.
            2. Or you can take this opportunity to recognize that you stand alone in this forum and the most likely the reason is that you are in fact out of control with your views of how to best handle your current situation for the benefit of your family.

            Option 1 is easy, option 2 is hard. I hope this does not sound condescending because that is not my intent. Everyone here has probably faced their demons while going through family break up, some more successful than others - which will you be?

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