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    I just send off my Case Conference to her lawyer and in the papers I added the the bio father should also be considered in all these matters as I'm been asked to pay for braces and who knows what else in the next 2 years.
    I need some answers here questioned before we meet Thursday. In her letter she is seeking back support and wants me to pay it off over the period of 1 yr I am asking for 2 due that I will not be able to support myself as well. She also says in the letter that when we agreed to the 350 a month under guide line amounts, that was because i would agree not to seek Cs from the bio father. I did not agree to that I just did want to pay full amount when she should seek support from both of us.
    I would think that i have a great leg to stand on here when i said that the bio father needs to be added to this case conference Question 19 on form 17a.
    Can the judge only make me pay or will he undersatnd what I am asking and tell her she also needs to add him??? like for the braces or college? or any other expences.
    I had to let my lawyer go as well due to the fact it seemed like we were not getting anywhere with settling this out also It was a huge cost for me to keep him and pay CS monthly as well as my Mortage..



    Shit I'm getting worried here, I feel like I'm gonna get ripped apart

    Thks

  • #2
    That is exactly what she is intending on doing, getting you worried so that you fold to her demands.

    Stay your course, I feel you have a strong case, and the bio dad IS in a position to contribute, who is she to determine who pays. The courts make the decisions not her! Do not let her get to you, hard to do when you are so emotionally wrapped up in this, but focus on your goals.

    I sincerely feel the courts will ask that the bio be include given the recent events around his ability to pay. If he is employed living well, why should he be allowed to just walk while you are left footing the bill 100%? Even though you want to help and care for the children, does not negate his responsibility and that is how I would present to the judge. Then the judge will see that you are not trying to get off, but want fairness. Stay focused

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    • #3
      Thank you I am trying to stay upbeat i will keep eveyone posted on Thursday!!!

      Coffeeman

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      • #4
        If the child is Pregnant will I be held accountable for anything? Found out from some friends that she is 5 mths Pregnant WOW looks like her Mother really taught her some family morals and Values.

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        • #5
          how old is the child?

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          • #6
            She is 16 and lives W the mother

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            • #7
              You will not be held accountable for any CS type costs with respect to the 16 yr.old’s new child.
              You may in fact be able to have a reduced CS amount if she applies for and gets any government assistance.
              The boy friend/father must be held accountable for getting this young girl pregnant.
              If that happens I’ll be surprised.

              Stay your course, and stay focused.

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