Mother put s9 in competitive weekend sports against my consent and now wanting to change my visitation to accommodate the change in their routines. We live 3 hours apart. All games are 4-6 hours from my residence.
I work oilfield and had been unemployed for 1 yr. thankfully had savings so support was not effected however this was one of my reasons for not agreeing to the expensive every weekend sport, s12 got braces this year and the other reason was it interferes with my visitation rights.
Same year I lose my job mother wins a $1 mil lawsuit. Same year she enrolled kids in said weekend sports without giving notice or obtaining my consent. But promised she talked to the association and he is allowed to miss his games without penalty on my wkds.
Says she will no longer bring kids on my weekends unless I am here for the whole duration of their visit. (Side note) my whole family lives here and the kids have a sibling here to visit as well, same aged cousins live 2 houses away. They have stated they want to come even if I am working.
I find it unfair to have my visitation rights taken because I need to work. I have a job in a different province now that I travel to just to keep the roof over our heads and if I am taking time off to see the kids which I have no problem doing I don't find it fair to be on the road for 10 hours sitting at hockey rinks with 3 other kids 4-5 hours away from my home because the mother unilaterally put child in this sport against my wishes.
Do I have a case here? Can she really control my time and what I do with the kids when I only see them 4 days a month?
Any suggestions? I have tons of documentation her saying she will never enroll in this sport and me saying I would not agree to it. We did come to an agreement on a less competitive level that would not interfere then she lied and said it was no longer available. And put him in anyways.
She is seeking legal council and has ordered me to get into contact with mine.
I work oilfield and had been unemployed for 1 yr. thankfully had savings so support was not effected however this was one of my reasons for not agreeing to the expensive every weekend sport, s12 got braces this year and the other reason was it interferes with my visitation rights.
Same year I lose my job mother wins a $1 mil lawsuit. Same year she enrolled kids in said weekend sports without giving notice or obtaining my consent. But promised she talked to the association and he is allowed to miss his games without penalty on my wkds.
Says she will no longer bring kids on my weekends unless I am here for the whole duration of their visit. (Side note) my whole family lives here and the kids have a sibling here to visit as well, same aged cousins live 2 houses away. They have stated they want to come even if I am working.
I find it unfair to have my visitation rights taken because I need to work. I have a job in a different province now that I travel to just to keep the roof over our heads and if I am taking time off to see the kids which I have no problem doing I don't find it fair to be on the road for 10 hours sitting at hockey rinks with 3 other kids 4-5 hours away from my home because the mother unilaterally put child in this sport against my wishes.
Do I have a case here? Can she really control my time and what I do with the kids when I only see them 4 days a month?
Any suggestions? I have tons of documentation her saying she will never enroll in this sport and me saying I would not agree to it. We did come to an agreement on a less competitive level that would not interfere then she lied and said it was no longer available. And put him in anyways.
She is seeking legal council and has ordered me to get into contact with mine.
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