So, we went to court and have a new order starting on May 1st. *I don't want to go into details* but on this week I have our 5 year old this Friday afterschool till Wednesday 8 PM. I had texted her earlier on Thursday if I was going to get him and she texted back that she has weekend plans and too bad and she will let me know when I can have him.
I stated the judge asked us to make a new order in Special Chambers, you, me, both our lawyers and the judge agreed to the schedule, and you cannot simply change it now. He is also sending us to case management.
Her response through email again was, too bad I have plans and I was under stress at court so too bad, end of discussion. I'm his mother.
This is the 3rd time this month she is not following the Court Order. I've asked my lawyer what to do, and she has said she will try and expedite us going to change management.
My ex now says she is going to give him to me today as she has to go to work. I then have him till 8 PM Wednesday.
Of course I am documenting all these times and recording it for the case management judge and wait till that happens. However, because I am not asking for any of my time back, as I like to follow court orders like most everyone else does, she now is keeping more and has an attitude that it's okay for her to extend her time when she feels like.
Is it okay for me to say to her today, look since you violated the court order and kept him Friday night on my time, I will keep him Wednesday night extra to make up for the time.
I don't want to do this tit for tat thing but I'm running out of options and her personality type has been you give her an inch, she will take a few miles.
I stated the judge asked us to make a new order in Special Chambers, you, me, both our lawyers and the judge agreed to the schedule, and you cannot simply change it now. He is also sending us to case management.
Her response through email again was, too bad I have plans and I was under stress at court so too bad, end of discussion. I'm his mother.
This is the 3rd time this month she is not following the Court Order. I've asked my lawyer what to do, and she has said she will try and expedite us going to change management.
My ex now says she is going to give him to me today as she has to go to work. I then have him till 8 PM Wednesday.
Of course I am documenting all these times and recording it for the case management judge and wait till that happens. However, because I am not asking for any of my time back, as I like to follow court orders like most everyone else does, she now is keeping more and has an attitude that it's okay for her to extend her time when she feels like.
Is it okay for me to say to her today, look since you violated the court order and kept him Friday night on my time, I will keep him Wednesday night extra to make up for the time.
I don't want to do this tit for tat thing but I'm running out of options and her personality type has been you give her an inch, she will take a few miles.
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