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A new issue has been brewing and my partner is at a loss and frustrated. Personally Im at the point of "why bother trying anymore" but thats not really a good solution.
History of alienation. Kid refuses to speak to dad. Ex encourages by not sharing info. Over the last two years hes told ex in writing she is obligated to share info and not just "kid wants to participate in x activity your share is $$$".
A few weeks ago he got an email from the school outlining kids attendance, class schedule and parents info on school activities. He responded asking for further info on his kid and included the section of their agreement that outlines he is allowed to ask for this info. No response. He followed up with the guidance dept (where his initial email was forwarded) and still no response.
This happened two years ago with a previous school and required him to involve the superintendent. This summer he discovered his ex had put a confidentiality clause on kids file with an activity they wanted him to pay for. When pressed the organization actually called his ex for permission which she finally granted.
His question is this: at what age are kids allowed to say dont give info to a parent? Kid is 15. Theyre still obligated to share info until the age of 18 right?
History of alienation. Kid refuses to speak to dad. Ex encourages by not sharing info. Over the last two years hes told ex in writing she is obligated to share info and not just "kid wants to participate in x activity your share is $$$".
A few weeks ago he got an email from the school outlining kids attendance, class schedule and parents info on school activities. He responded asking for further info on his kid and included the section of their agreement that outlines he is allowed to ask for this info. No response. He followed up with the guidance dept (where his initial email was forwarded) and still no response.
This happened two years ago with a previous school and required him to involve the superintendent. This summer he discovered his ex had put a confidentiality clause on kids file with an activity they wanted him to pay for. When pressed the organization actually called his ex for permission which she finally granted.
His question is this: at what age are kids allowed to say dont give info to a parent? Kid is 15. Theyre still obligated to share info until the age of 18 right?
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