So I had a nagging feeling over the weekend so I went down to the court house and asked to see the file.
Turns out there is a notice for approaching dismissal. My address didn't get updated when I moved so I didn't get it. Still have a few weeks to act. But on the drive home I wondered...should I?
Summary: ex filed an exparte to start off the application. Made wild allegations, all proven to be nonsense, OCL was involved and filed a written report in my favour and for joint custody. We have joint now.
The case has been stalled waiting for OCL to finish, then for her to complete disclosure. I haven't sent mine but its ready to go...the ex is hiding assets and holding key pieces back from her disclosure.
So if this goes to dismissal I'm trying to figure out what I lose out on.
The status quo is pretty good other than the 50/50 schedule is a weird three days on the three days off routine.
I'm not paying spousal so that's good. I think she has hidden some assets off shore - about $30k. So she would owe me $16k but realistically I know is will never see that...
Not sure if it's just best to let this thing die...then what we just go back to negotiating a settlement?
Turns out there is a notice for approaching dismissal. My address didn't get updated when I moved so I didn't get it. Still have a few weeks to act. But on the drive home I wondered...should I?
Summary: ex filed an exparte to start off the application. Made wild allegations, all proven to be nonsense, OCL was involved and filed a written report in my favour and for joint custody. We have joint now.
The case has been stalled waiting for OCL to finish, then for her to complete disclosure. I haven't sent mine but its ready to go...the ex is hiding assets and holding key pieces back from her disclosure.
So if this goes to dismissal I'm trying to figure out what I lose out on.
The status quo is pretty good other than the 50/50 schedule is a weird three days on the three days off routine.
I'm not paying spousal so that's good. I think she has hidden some assets off shore - about $30k. So she would owe me $16k but realistically I know is will never see that...
Not sure if it's just best to let this thing die...then what we just go back to negotiating a settlement?
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