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    Well, my husband's exwife is as demented as ever. Since I wrote her a letter asking her to get help since her behaviors and actions were hurting my family and hers, asking her to treat us with a bit of respect, the kids are choosing not to visit us most of the times. So SHE says.. She must be up to her emotial blackmail again. I really think she has mastered that art. I realize now that this "reaching out" to her was probably a mistake but I figured that if no one tells her how she is affecting everybody, then maybe she would want to better herself. I guess that I was wrong on that. In the last week, we have decided to move to Savannah, Georgia due to a job offer that my husband got. We never wanted to go before since the kids are here but unfortunately we will be constantly battling against stronger forces. It hurts too much being rejected all the time, especially when we try so hard to be the perfect parents and love them. We realize that there is not much we can do at the moment except hope that when the kids are older, they will break free from all of this crazyness. How is the move going to affect child support and so on....Can she stop us from moving? I wanted to thank all you for the support you have shown for myself and everybody on this forum...

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    Mr. ReadyNow,
    as you mentioned,

    How is the move going to affect child support and so on....Can she stop us from moving?
    It won't effect it too much, the obligation still exists. However an increase in ones income would construe to be a material change of circumstance and as such most likely an obligated increase to reflect same. The other party cannot stop you from moving. However you may want to review the children's access before the move and perhaps take the matter up with the courts before you move to ensure the children the right to have a meaningful relationship with both parents. The move in itself creates a material change to have the children's access varied. You may also want to still have the office of the children's lawyer involved in the matter to represent the children to perhaps place emphasis on the importance to have both parent's in their respective life and maybe make an access recommendation such as holidays shared, etc.

    lv

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