So again she is dealing with non payment of daycare. Last time she used the lawyer and it cost $800 to get the payments. This time, on advice of a court mediator (who her ex refused to meet with) she is going to process the necessary forms herself.
So I have searched the forum for the correct process and just cannot find it.
Questions
1. Does she have to file for contempt? I know that is a big deal and a I am not sure its appropriate when we are dealing with money only.
or
2. Should she file for consent to have FRO collect the daycare on a monthly basis upon receipt of the invoice? I think that is a Form 25? This is what the lawyer did last time and sent it to him and then he suddenly paid the arrears he owed. But of course has now not paid since then. Do you think she should do this again. Our understanding is that she sends this form and then if he refuses to consent she would take this form and all the documentation have to go to the court and get the judge to approve it.
So many options and ways to "skin the cat"
Before you tell me to butt out of her concerns. I am the one who does the research and she is the one to do the communications and decisions. Also she has sent the invoice from the registered daycare provider each month with the calculations of the agreed 60/40 split, plus each month shown the arrears. Its been 10 months now and he has refused to pay.
So I have searched the forum for the correct process and just cannot find it.
Questions
1. Does she have to file for contempt? I know that is a big deal and a I am not sure its appropriate when we are dealing with money only.
or
2. Should she file for consent to have FRO collect the daycare on a monthly basis upon receipt of the invoice? I think that is a Form 25? This is what the lawyer did last time and sent it to him and then he suddenly paid the arrears he owed. But of course has now not paid since then. Do you think she should do this again. Our understanding is that she sends this form and then if he refuses to consent she would take this form and all the documentation have to go to the court and get the judge to approve it.
So many options and ways to "skin the cat"
Before you tell me to butt out of her concerns. I am the one who does the research and she is the one to do the communications and decisions. Also she has sent the invoice from the registered daycare provider each month with the calculations of the agreed 60/40 split, plus each month shown the arrears. Its been 10 months now and he has refused to pay.
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