Hi, ex and I have separation agreement from 3 years ago, assets divided, 1 child and custody decided, the only thing that hasn't happened is the cpp division thing (apply to have credits split or whatever) and apply to have standard life RPP divided (both are in sep agreement, just haven't gotten around to doing it, neither of us cared to get it done yet and we know it's done based on the date of separation so not a concern).
We never went to court, just had each a lawyer for independent legal counsel, spousal support was 2.5 yrs (over last summer) from a 12yr marriage. Arrangement is very amicable and civil.
If I fill out the divorce app, and she has no problem signing it and won't try to derail the process or make new claims, is it possible to get it done without a judge deciding to stick his nose in the situation and change things? That's been my concern with getting final divorce done, that he/she might decide to change terms of SS? Do they do that? (I know terms can be changed if there's a battle in court or one party isn't happy but in our situation, my ex would just say 'where do i sign' to get divorce official and not try to change any terms...it's the judge I'm worried about).
Dan...
We never went to court, just had each a lawyer for independent legal counsel, spousal support was 2.5 yrs (over last summer) from a 12yr marriage. Arrangement is very amicable and civil.
If I fill out the divorce app, and she has no problem signing it and won't try to derail the process or make new claims, is it possible to get it done without a judge deciding to stick his nose in the situation and change things? That's been my concern with getting final divorce done, that he/she might decide to change terms of SS? Do they do that? (I know terms can be changed if there's a battle in court or one party isn't happy but in our situation, my ex would just say 'where do i sign' to get divorce official and not try to change any terms...it's the judge I'm worried about).
Dan...
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