Ugh. So my ex sent his lawyer an email and cc'ed it to me stating that he wants to get a restraining order against me.
Details: our kids ski. He doesn't want me to be at the ski hill when he's there and actually put in a variation agreement that I wouldn't be allowed to stay at the hotel out at the ski hill if they were staying there. I didn't sign that.
He comes to all the kids sports here in town whether its my day or not and although I myself care not to see him, I don't make a fuss because of course he's the boys dad.
So a couple of weeks ago I went to the ski hill. In the lodge was my youngest son, friends that used to be mine in the divorse, (but in the separation the ex got them) and my ex's maid, who I do not like one bit.
I went over and said hi to everyone, completly ignored the maid and then went skiing. Came back at lunch to say hi, my ex told me to f*ck off, but I remained pleasant and just said hi to my other two boys. His friends wife, who used to be my friend too, came after me and asked how it was going. I told her ok, but I was really hurt by my ex and the maid having their relationship. He said they were in a relationship in the mediation.
Anyway, now this email today stated that 3 weeks ago I barged upto the table, pushed through all his friends to drag this guys wife out and tell her that my ex is screwing the nanny and that I was going to beat up the maid. So he wants a retaining order.
I didn't respond to the email, what do you guys think? To me, this is just a tactic to get me off the ski hill. He was also talking about getting me for slander.
He's going around saying that I don't feed the kids, my house is a pigsty and I'm on all kinds of pills (none true).
What are his chances on this? In his email to his lawyer he wrote that the mediator may have given me the impression that they were in a relationship, but he meant they were just 'dear' friends. I can't beleive my separation is going down this path, but I guess I actually can.
Details: our kids ski. He doesn't want me to be at the ski hill when he's there and actually put in a variation agreement that I wouldn't be allowed to stay at the hotel out at the ski hill if they were staying there. I didn't sign that.
He comes to all the kids sports here in town whether its my day or not and although I myself care not to see him, I don't make a fuss because of course he's the boys dad.
So a couple of weeks ago I went to the ski hill. In the lodge was my youngest son, friends that used to be mine in the divorse, (but in the separation the ex got them) and my ex's maid, who I do not like one bit.
I went over and said hi to everyone, completly ignored the maid and then went skiing. Came back at lunch to say hi, my ex told me to f*ck off, but I remained pleasant and just said hi to my other two boys. His friends wife, who used to be my friend too, came after me and asked how it was going. I told her ok, but I was really hurt by my ex and the maid having their relationship. He said they were in a relationship in the mediation.
Anyway, now this email today stated that 3 weeks ago I barged upto the table, pushed through all his friends to drag this guys wife out and tell her that my ex is screwing the nanny and that I was going to beat up the maid. So he wants a retaining order.
I didn't respond to the email, what do you guys think? To me, this is just a tactic to get me off the ski hill. He was also talking about getting me for slander.
He's going around saying that I don't feed the kids, my house is a pigsty and I'm on all kinds of pills (none true).
What are his chances on this? In his email to his lawyer he wrote that the mediator may have given me the impression that they were in a relationship, but he meant they were just 'dear' friends. I can't beleive my separation is going down this path, but I guess I actually can.
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