I am currently living with my wife, seperated and in the inlaw suite downstairs, been like that for 14 months. We will be selling the house this spring, and we agered on that.
I hear from friends that she is planning a quiet quick move to a location 4 hours from here, where roads become dangerous and impassable through the mountains at times in he winter, she is planning on registering them for school and getting things setup right away(guess that will help her get away with it easier).
What is the best thing to do to keep her close to my/our current location, 2 kids 5 and 14, she does not have a very good job or any kind of training or education for any serious kind of career or job, we have lived here for 30 months now, my job is secure good paying, but it requires on call 24/7, and could be away up to 40 hours at a time some times....until my seniority becomes better. I can not really spend enough time at home with kids(due to work) to try for full custody or similar but would like the kids to stay close to where they are.
My family is all on the prairies, I am in BC, so getting help from family is a bit difficult for looking after the kids...for now.
Any ideas very much appreciated and this forum is great!
PS...The 14 year old just got through a change in schools and is finally settling down on her grades after being a bada$$ trying to situate herself here...don't want her doing that again and the 5 yr old is pretty sensitive to change...
I hear from friends that she is planning a quiet quick move to a location 4 hours from here, where roads become dangerous and impassable through the mountains at times in he winter, she is planning on registering them for school and getting things setup right away(guess that will help her get away with it easier).
What is the best thing to do to keep her close to my/our current location, 2 kids 5 and 14, she does not have a very good job or any kind of training or education for any serious kind of career or job, we have lived here for 30 months now, my job is secure good paying, but it requires on call 24/7, and could be away up to 40 hours at a time some times....until my seniority becomes better. I can not really spend enough time at home with kids(due to work) to try for full custody or similar but would like the kids to stay close to where they are.
My family is all on the prairies, I am in BC, so getting help from family is a bit difficult for looking after the kids...for now.
Any ideas very much appreciated and this forum is great!
PS...The 14 year old just got through a change in schools and is finally settling down on her grades after being a bada$$ trying to situate herself here...don't want her doing that again and the 5 yr old is pretty sensitive to change...
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