It has been over a year and over 10 000 dollars each spent on lawyers trying to draft an agreement. My ex initiated a conversation that virtually has led to agreeing to everything to be written up to be signed. I do not want to fight financially or emotionally anymore.
Both of us realize that too much money was being spent and we weren't getting anywhere.
Basically my ex has agreed to the very first proposed agreement I presented. The only difference was that now the equilization payment would be nil.(it equals out)
My ex warns me that my lawyer better not slip anything into this agreement that his lawyer will want hashed out. He believes his lawyer will tell him he is getting ripped off.
So I just want to write it up --but unsure of some of the wording. He agreed to child support to start Jan 2013 with no arrears. I was in agreeance that any sec 7 expenses he wished to help with were to be up to him, but I would like help with any dental.
He wants the 400$cs to be a fixed amount for 2 years.(for 3 kids) and he has dropped his claim for spousal support.
Visitation and holidays I think can be agreed upon. ( EOW and 2 wed overnites)
He will be moving in with his partner and also warned that they will never be putting their money together so I wasn`t to include her income down the line.That is fine.
Question--how do i write up the sec 7 exp part...
is there anything else I am leaving out...
i have an apt with my lawyer tomorrow...
any advice would be appreciated!
Both of us realize that too much money was being spent and we weren't getting anywhere.
Basically my ex has agreed to the very first proposed agreement I presented. The only difference was that now the equilization payment would be nil.(it equals out)
My ex warns me that my lawyer better not slip anything into this agreement that his lawyer will want hashed out. He believes his lawyer will tell him he is getting ripped off.
So I just want to write it up --but unsure of some of the wording. He agreed to child support to start Jan 2013 with no arrears. I was in agreeance that any sec 7 expenses he wished to help with were to be up to him, but I would like help with any dental.
He wants the 400$cs to be a fixed amount for 2 years.(for 3 kids) and he has dropped his claim for spousal support.
Visitation and holidays I think can be agreed upon. ( EOW and 2 wed overnites)
He will be moving in with his partner and also warned that they will never be putting their money together so I wasn`t to include her income down the line.That is fine.
Question--how do i write up the sec 7 exp part...
is there anything else I am leaving out...
i have an apt with my lawyer tomorrow...
any advice would be appreciated!
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