Hi all,
I'm married for 43 years and have a long story. I'll try and kept it succinct. My husband physically (just once but it was extremely severe), emotionally and mentally abused me for over 40 years. Last fall I finally left him after the police urged me to go. He even admitted to the physical abuse when the police asked. It' been very hard even though I have never had one nano-second of regret about leaving him.
He has been slandering me with malicious lies to anyone who will listen and read. He has written letters full of lies to family and organizations, to my lawyer, and its just too horrible to recount everything; besides it would take me too long, and I don't want to write a long diatribe...one reason being that I'm just too tired right now. I have reason to think he has also cheated. I've been faithful to him throughout our marriage and still am. I tried hard to have this marriage work. He was totally narcissistic and refused to communicate.
I'm in the process now of figuring out my net worth. My new lawyer is on vacation and it will take him some time to get up to speed on my file. Meanwhile 2bx has made up his net worth and is hiding assets. He even demands me paying him equalization which is totally fraudulent and ridiculous. His lawyer knows better but she is perpetuating his lies.
I know he is livid about me leaving him and also for returning to the marital home 3 days after I left to gather documents (with the police in tow).
There is so much more I could mention but I'm just tired right now (it's late) and don't want to bore anyone. Just hoping for some encouragement and advice for now.
Thanks .
caranna
I'm married for 43 years and have a long story. I'll try and kept it succinct. My husband physically (just once but it was extremely severe), emotionally and mentally abused me for over 40 years. Last fall I finally left him after the police urged me to go. He even admitted to the physical abuse when the police asked. It' been very hard even though I have never had one nano-second of regret about leaving him.
He has been slandering me with malicious lies to anyone who will listen and read. He has written letters full of lies to family and organizations, to my lawyer, and its just too horrible to recount everything; besides it would take me too long, and I don't want to write a long diatribe...one reason being that I'm just too tired right now. I have reason to think he has also cheated. I've been faithful to him throughout our marriage and still am. I tried hard to have this marriage work. He was totally narcissistic and refused to communicate.
I'm in the process now of figuring out my net worth. My new lawyer is on vacation and it will take him some time to get up to speed on my file. Meanwhile 2bx has made up his net worth and is hiding assets. He even demands me paying him equalization which is totally fraudulent and ridiculous. His lawyer knows better but she is perpetuating his lies.
I know he is livid about me leaving him and also for returning to the marital home 3 days after I left to gather documents (with the police in tow).
There is so much more I could mention but I'm just tired right now (it's late) and don't want to bore anyone. Just hoping for some encouragement and advice for now.
Thanks .
caranna
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