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Ex and I have a court order concerning holidays. It is supposed to alternate each year. Last year he started of with Christmas, the first half of the Christmas holidays, and I had the last half. (new years)
So I planned and put in my holidays according to the alternate plan. This year I would start off with the beginning of the holidays. Well now after a year of knowing this, the ex, it s telling me now that his holidays are the start of holidays, and wants me to have the last half.
I did what I was supposed to. But in the court order, we have to mutually agree on this. He is throwing that in my face, along with more threats of court, and accusations. So now to avoid the further fighting and accusations, and avoiding him giving her some sob story saying mommy wont let me do this ect..ect.. and stop him accusing me of not being flexible. I will have to cancel the plans I made. I don't blame the man for wanting to see his daughter, but he had a year to plan for this knowing it was to alternate, being the opposite from what he had last year.
Has anyone been in this situation before? How do you cope. He seems he always wants to fight with me, especially if he doesn't get what he wants. I feel so bad for my daughter, he feeds her the sob stories, and makes her feel sorry for him.
Ex and I have a court order concerning holidays. It is supposed to alternate each year. Last year he started of with Christmas, the first half of the Christmas holidays, and I had the last half. (new years)
So I planned and put in my holidays according to the alternate plan. This year I would start off with the beginning of the holidays. Well now after a year of knowing this, the ex, it s telling me now that his holidays are the start of holidays, and wants me to have the last half.
I did what I was supposed to. But in the court order, we have to mutually agree on this. He is throwing that in my face, along with more threats of court, and accusations. So now to avoid the further fighting and accusations, and avoiding him giving her some sob story saying mommy wont let me do this ect..ect.. and stop him accusing me of not being flexible. I will have to cancel the plans I made. I don't blame the man for wanting to see his daughter, but he had a year to plan for this knowing it was to alternate, being the opposite from what he had last year.
Has anyone been in this situation before? How do you cope. He seems he always wants to fight with me, especially if he doesn't get what he wants. I feel so bad for my daughter, he feeds her the sob stories, and makes her feel sorry for him.
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