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  • About billm
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    Separated (2007), 3 kids, 50/50 access

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  • Last Activity: 09-06-2016 03:58 PM
  • Join Date: 09-21-2008
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  1. Tryingsohard
    09-12-2012 01:11 PM - permalink
    Tryingsohard
    Although I created my profile in 2011, it's the first time I try to post a message. How do I do this?
  2. first timer
    11-05-2009 06:07 AM - permalink
    first timer
    Hi billm, I believe I read a post of yours that said you would help anyone who asked forit. Is this offer still available? If so, here is my husband's situation, any advice would be greatly appreciated.
    I am already divorced, it was an uncontested divorce in Feb 2009. But we still have not settled any of the issues of the divorce. I currently and have done so since Jan 2008 pay a combined amount of child and spousal support. The NFP is in dispute. None of the financial part of a divorce have been settled. I have a 50/50 shared parenting arrangement which is not in dispute. I have tried mediation, then negotiation, 4 way meetings with lawyers and clients (my ex and I)present, offers to settle.... I am self-represented since August of 2009 and have attended one case conference. I was made to feel insignificant because I don't have a lawyer representing me and my ex does. I do not have a correct or complete financial statement from my ex nor her yearly earnings. There is debt of the marriage to top it all off and she does not feel she has to put this in her NFP. The debt is in relation to a company we started but has since been dissolved. There is a post-separation amount owing to me as well. I simply do not have the funds to hire a lawyer, 60% of my income after taxes goes to my ex, I am responsible for paying down the debt and for supporting our kids 50% of the time. I simply don't know what to do or who to turn to. If there is a lawyer in Ottawa who is willing to help me through this process I would really appreciate some legal advice.

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