For the women

[mummer1962]

Before i went trial, I was a mess... i was so downtrodden that i took anyones opinion as gospel.
What a fool.
Now that am done trial... I am back to my confident self. I don t give a rats ass what certain people think here...i won and im pretty sure that I set a precident...
i'll give you the canlii link as soon as it goes on.,,
In the meantime sticks and stones
My poor partner tried to defend me because he cannot even imagine doing what has been done to me and other women here
he does not have to defend me
and no...i am not going away
I am only going to get LOUDER to defend women
You cannot dump on us. ..you cannot call us bitches,,whaever else you want to call us ....see canadamamas posts.
Jeff Berndhert owns this forum and i am sure he does not want to go up against a women's rights adovcate.
So...bring it on....dump on me..but I will be watching all posts and if you unfairly attack women...i will bring it back to the administator
Gary M, dtte, billm...you do not own this forum
its about fairness...and information..
so lets do what this forus is supposed to ....

[blinkandimgone]

lmao!

Clearly you DO give a rat's ass, enough that you whined to your 'partner' that strangers on the intertube were upsetting you and 'he' ran to post in your defence.

My advice to you: back away from the computer, step outside and familiarize yourself with the real world. Stupid and wrong is stupid and wrong whether you're male or female - nobody cares what gender you are but you.

It always amazes me when people like you jump to the gender defense as soon as somebody disagrees with you - even a stranger on the intertube. It's women like you who make all the rest groan in embarrassment to share the X chromosome.

And I do believe Jeff is quite capable of moderating his own forum AND speaking for himself, unless the rest of us are unaware that he's appointed you to do so for him....?

[mama2bee]

Originally Posted by blinkandimgone

lmao!

Clearly you DO give a rat's ass, enough that you whined to your 'partner' that strangers on the intertube were upsetting you and 'he' ran to post in your defence.

My advice to you: back away from the computer, step outside and familiarize yourself with the real world. Stupid and wrong is stupid and wrong whether you're male or female - nobody cares what gender you are but you.

It always amazes me when people like you jump to the gender defense as soon as somebody disagrees with you - even a stranger on the intertube. It's women like you who make all the rest groan in embarrassment to share the X chromosome.

And I do believe Jeff is quite capable of moderating his own forum AND speaking for himself, unless the rest of us are unaware that he's appointed you to do so for him....?

I second this !

[mummer1962]

Sorry,
People do come here to ask for advise and not be judged or harrassed by some..I did not whine to my partner...he could not simply believe what goes on here...being called names, etc..
nothing to do with gender till it becomes that on here...
"do women get preferential treatment in court"I
I did not start that post

[mummer1962]

Now I am going to be known as the BITCH on here and I dont care...

[billm]

I gotta admit, I got a rush being named in the original post.

[blinkandimgone]

Another list I didn't make. *sadness*

Funny how she likes to only point out only the men who disagree with her despite the fact that the majority of women who have responded to her posts disagree as well.

[wretchedotis]

lol!

"intertube"



Mummer - i dunno your personal situation. But I assure you that generally speaking, when it comes to custody and access, women have the edge in Family Court.

I don't know about the rest, but that persoanlly pisses me off.
Because my ex uses it against me. To hurt our son - when she thinks she's hurting me by withholding him.

It does hurt me actually. So I guess she wins. But the boy sure loses.

THAT is what sucks about the way this system is set up.
Sorry if it offends you. It sure offends me.

[NBDad]

Wrong is wrong is wrong. Doesn't matter of your gender, what you do for a living or what leg you put into your pants first in the morning.

I try not to be nasty, but there are those here who see the same damn questions over and over and over again and it gets real old real quick.

For anyONE who pulls the "poor me" card, I have little sympathy. Grow up, put on the big boy/girl pants (as appropriate) and DO something about it.

Personally posts like this one amuse me greatly.

[canadamama]

mummer1962 there is no POINT to this. The lunatics have taken over the asylum and this place is LOST.

This is a forum where is is PERFECTLY acceptable to piss and moan about how women have the upper hand in court, but the first person to say anything about their MALE ex mistreating them gets jumped on and told to quit whining.

To say it AGAIN: my first post to this forum was to explain that I had found CHILD PORN on my ex's computer and to ask for support as I tried to figure out how to manage my daughters' relationship with their father and still make sure they were safe. The first reply I got to it was from Mess who, after a nod to the inappropriateness of kiddy porn (well thanks for that), said that I had no business 'demonizing' him (his word), and that there was no difference between a grown daughter visiting a father who looks at regular porn and a child visiting a father who looks at child porn.

Check it out: http://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/f...d-v-long-8540/

Seriously - save your breath. It's a shame, because I think that a lot of people are turned off of this forum by this gaggle of folks who openly state they don't give a rat's ass about anyone's feelings, but it is what it is, and the fact is that they DON'T. There are much worthier causes in this world than trying to save this forum from itself.