Scared of The Unknown...

[dadtotheend]

You mean that your ex is not the father?

[MsD]

Definitely agree about contacting a shelter - also, check what assistance programs are available in your city. Ottawa has a slew of programs including emergency funding for women in need.

In the meantime, find a one bedroom in someone's basement or wherever. If you have the money for first and last, you'll get the apt.

I am so sorry that you are in this situation and that your ex is ok with his child living like this. It's not right and I have a few choice words for someone so callous...

Stay strong - this too will pass.

[LostFather]

Originally Posted by scaredntired

ex owns home and everything else.....child is mine

"the child is mine" Where is the father? Have you asked or gone after or receiving CS from him?

$2500/ month, I'm totally not understanding that one, I think that was already asked, but where are you living Downtown TO?

Maybe find another location, heck there should be no reason why you can't find something for half that amount or even less, pending your location.

[logicalvelocity]

I would think after 15 years as a "Homemaker" you would be entitled to Spousal Support. Additionally, I presume you were common law - unjust enrichment.

[Elvis]

Possibly CS too. How can you afford $2500 a month for rent? Like someone said apply for co op housing and in meantime find a basement or something way cheaper. Kijiji.ca is one of the places where people look for and advertise rental properties.

[logicalvelocity]

That too - but with expiration date on the horizon once position is shown.