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Old 11-28-2014, 09:52 AM
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I'm not sure per your earlier statement about you guys reaching an agreement (with court involvement) if you had mentioned this mental illness to the court but, although its nice that you want to help her, it really isn't about her or about you, for that matter. Its about your son. ]



The courts were aware of her mental illnesses. And I totally agree its about our son. My little monkey is hurting. Today is the last of the meetings with CAS- today is finding out what services they can provide our son. Hoping he can get some therapy/counselling.
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Old 11-28-2014, 12:05 PM
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The courts were aware of her mental illnesses. And I totally agree its about our son. My little monkey is hurting. Today is the last of the meetings with CAS- today is finding out what services they can provide our son. Hoping he can get some therapy/counselling.
I hope you can get some help for him too.

What did the court say about her illness?
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Old 11-28-2014, 12:46 PM
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just returned from the CAS-- I have asked for referrals for therapy or counselling, and they will send me a few- which I am happy for. They have a few issues with whats going on over at her house and agreed that there is mental/emotional abuse taking place, but, he said its really not that bad, and we shouldn't be worried. I asked him " really, so, what your saying is my discipline method was enough concern to investigate me, take away my court ordered week of custody-- but her abuses are nothing". I was a little take back from that. Claims she has agreed to get more help- but we will see.

[pursuinghappiness--What did the court say about her illness? ]

The courts actually told her to get help- in which she did. But she has stopped that help- she thinks she better and she cant afford it any longer,
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Old 11-28-2014, 03:07 PM
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I just took 40 minutes and took the HAP and PAS tests

the HAP score was 765
and it said Yes our son is suffering from PAS

what does this mean?
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Old 11-28-2014, 03:15 PM
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Nothing.

Stick with trained professionals (psychologists, social workers) to assist your son and you with the challenges of co-parenting. Online tests cannot diagnose anything. In particular, they can't diagnose your ex based on answers you provide. Everyone thinks their ex is crazy.
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Old 11-28-2014, 03:23 PM
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Thank you very much
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