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Old 12-11-2015, 02:12 PM
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I have found personally that realtors like to tell people their property is worth much more than it is. This sort of "baiting" is commonplace. Tell people what they want to hear... get a 6 month listing...then get client to lower price. All the while the realtor gets oodles of spin-off business from people inquiring about your home (they end up selling another house to them). For this reason I would NEVER give a realtor more than 30 day listing.

I recommend you get an an independent assessment by a licensed real estate appraisal service (ones that banks/mortgage companies use).

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I don't really want to spend more money on that..but. Do you recommend anyone for the appraisal?
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Old 12-12-2015, 10:38 AM
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If you have an authentic appraisal your ex might change her mind about price of home.
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Well, things just went nuclear today.

We've being doing 50/50 alternating weeks for the last 5 months.
I was supposed to pick up my kids today after school. She got there early signed them out and won't give them to me or let me see them. She won't answer my calls.

I showed up with the police, but they can't do anything because there is nothing written and signed (because it's pending in court).

I know what i have to do. Which is go down to the court house on Monday morning and try to get an emergency court order.

I know in the long wrong this is good for me and bad for her so long as I remain calm and keep cool, which I have. But it doesn't hurt any less.
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Old 12-18-2015, 06:37 PM
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Well, things just went nuclear today.

We've being doing 50/50 alternating weeks for the last 5 months.
I was supposed to pick up my kids today after school. She got there early signed them out and won't give them to me or let me see them. She won't answer my calls.

I showed up with the police, but they can't do anything because there is nothing written and signed (because it's pending in court).

I know what i have to do. Which is go down to the court house on Monday morning and try to get an emergency court order.

I know in the long wrong this is good for me and bad for her so long as I remain calm and keep cool, which I have. But it doesn't hurt any less.
You heart's in your throat... I know the nightmare of having a child ripped away like some kind of object. Hang in there Mohawk. Be SURE you have in writing her denials to see the kids. Dirty schemer. Happens too often, there should be jail time for this crap!
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She will not respond so I have nothing in writting from her, but I do have

a) proof of the 5 months of alternate weeks
b) A police report from today stating that she would not let the kids come with me.

I hope that's enough to get an emergency order.
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Old 12-18-2015, 11:29 PM
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Absence of a specific court order keeps the police busy at this time of year at taxpayer's expense.

Result of another LOUSY CASE CONFERENCE perhaps?

It's insidious really Do judges plan this? Am I missing something here?
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Old 12-18-2015, 11:36 PM
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In the future you MUST insist on specific wording to your Order.

Sorry you have to go through this.
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