My god I need help

[billiechic]

Originally Posted by Tim Cash

sounds good to me as of the 117 I have asked 2 questions , the rest has been a pissing contest and its ridiculous.

After giving you solid advice about how to calm down the "pissing contest" on your thread, you didn't even listen?
Have you ever heard of censoring your thoughts?
I'm starting to think this might have been a problem for you in the past..

GROW UP!

[Tim Cash]

Ummm I was agreeing with you ? I think something got lost in translation there...

[billiechic]

you were calling somthing ridiculous and a "pissing contest" that you willingly participated in and fueled. Take responsibility for your actions, make ammends and move on. There is no reason for the snide remarks.

[Tim Cash]

im getting pretty sick of the "its ok for one to drop a snide remark" but not the other ??? I was in my comment trying with no success in taking ownus to MY part in the pissing contest. Then in return I get ... (I thought they taught this stuff in Kindergarten???) I feel like im in the twilight zone....apologize are not good enough, just when dadtotheend and I are making headway now Iv pissed you off , I am more confused with you guys then I am with my ex? I think everyone needs to stop and read what im saying and not try to find in what im saying something that is not there. I might be a smartass , but I assure you I am not a mean person. Dont tell me to stop with the snide remarks and then drop your own snide remarks it only "adds fuel to the already flaming fire" Now for the last time ...I AM SORRY TO HAVE OFFENDED ANYONE , It has never been my intentions.

And thats not the only "snide" remark here there is one on every post ....so lets like you said move on ...PLEASE.

[billiechic]

No, you have not pissed me off. This is just an internet forum and it takes A LOT more to get me riled up.
It frustrates me that you are not able to see where you are offending someone until after someone points it out.

Fact is, I HAVE read what you are saying. You need to read your posts objectively and decide if all the content is relevant, helpful and required.

I will remove my snide remark. It was uncalled for. Sorry.

[Tim Cash]

lol ok great but now I look like a dumbass cuz it isnt there...but whatever look I just dont want any trouble ...everyone has been nice and I do take responsibility for my actions ok....like I said ..Im sorry , Now we can just move forward or we can continue to go back and fourth about things that have past. Now without insults can someone tell me what I need to do to put out the fire? I like all of you , everything I have read is great stuff and , dadtotheend , I am sorry, you sound to me like a great guy and a great dad so forgive me if you can, Mess as well. Billiechic please forgive me for the misunderstanding.......One day you guys will get to know me and Im sure you will see the side of me that will change how you feel . At least I hope you do.

[blinkandimgone]

Blinkandimgone, Bite me , I was simply trying to convey how bad i felt for saying the things I said to a few of the posters in here. Kind of regretting that now , but whatever . There has been some great conversations in these forums and yes I have read pretty much all of them.

Bite you? Not in your wildest dreams, my friend. Besides, you have Norwalk. Been there, done that, not thrilled with the trip.

I was simply trying to convey the impression you've given in your posts - which I did in fact sift through trying to find some relevant information about your situation to offer something constructive on. That's what this place is for.

Originally Posted by Tim Cash

So you must be the resident doctor in the group, you can tell from a few posts whats wrong with someone...could never be that they were just angry...nah he must be insane , you are a joke and I didnt ask for you opinion so do me a favor and shut your pie whole. It apears I will not get a fair shake here so do what you need to do , but for future people that will come to this forum , tread lightly as these know it all will humiliate you any chance they get and why?

Nowhere did I say you were insane. Having anxiety or depression issues does not make one insane so you may want to get over that misconception and quick as I think many here could be insulted by that insinuation.

You may not have specifically asked for MY opinion, however perhaps you may want to step back a moment and realize you are posting on an internet forum where the purpose is for others to offer advice and opinion, both of which you have recieved a lot of in this thread. You may not agree with the opinions or take the advice, however if you wish not to have public opinion then don't post in a public forum. You are not going to find anywhere to post online that only allows people who agree with you to comment on your posts.

I am not the only person who commented on the possibility of you having depression or anxiety issues. I may not be a doctor - nor likely are others in this thread - however given we are all in somewhat similar circumstances to a different degree, a high stress, deeply emotional time well known to contribute to or cause issues like anxiety and depression, some of us are likely very familiar with the symptoms and are doing you a favour in pointing it out. Nobody is suggesting you see a doctor or councillor to be mean. Or perhaps you have anger issues like you've said above. Doctors can help you with that as well.

People in a rational, well balanced emotional state do not bring up suicide lightly. Pull yourself out of your 'victim' state, establish your goals of what you want to accomplish and do something about it.

Food for thought: Be careful whose toes you step on today as they may be connected to the ass you have to kiss tomorrow.

[Tim Cash]

Thank you blink, point taken and thanks for your concern. And yes the Norwalk was vicious!

[Champsarah]

If you are going through a battle with this woman (in a legal sense) right now, you may want to make sure she doesn't get wind of these posts or hear any of this directly from you. With the way you are speaking this will only work against you, not for you.

[lillticked]

Tim . I think we all do .Call the helpline and talk to someone please