My god I need help

[Tim Cash]

I know your from Toronto ...so We should meet up....for a talk ....then we both might have a different outlook.

[tugofwar]

Ok this has got to stop, back and forth abusing each other. Tim, you came on here for a good reason, its about your children and are very passionate about them so stay focused on them and not what others are saying. You don't need to continue adding fuel to the fire. You need to cool down. I was the one who told him to appologize as I know how helpful this site is and wanted to continue helping Tim. Keep it about the kids, ask questions. You will not get sympathy from this site as I learned quickly. If you want to continue here then keep it about the kids. No need for swearing etc. It's not helping anyone!!!!!
As for everyone else, ease up. There's no reason to keep going on and on.
Just let it be. We have all been there especially at the beginning where the best of us was lost somewhere.
But this has got to stop.

[Tim Cash]

Ahh it's ok Tug , im fine , I obviously rub him the wrong way , but there are others on here that are good people and dont want a pat on the back. He is free to think of me as he wants as I am of him.

[Tim Cash]

Now as tug says stay focused ...I have a question ...My son has just turned one in Jan, so as I have been told status quo is very important in custody battles , but my question is this , she was breast feeding for the 1st 6 months and was unable to pump enough for me to have my son for any long periods of time , is there and argument there in regards to status quo?

[dadtotheend]

Originally Posted by Tim Cash

Now as tug says stay focused ...I have a question ...My son has just turned one in Jan, so as I have been told status quo is very important in custody battles , but my question is this , she was breast feeding for the 1st 6 months and was unable to pump enough for me to have my son for any long periods of time , is there and argument there in regards to status quo?

FINALLY, a reasonable question. Praise the Lord. It only took 115 posts.

[Tim Cash]

lol jesus christ...

[billiechic]

Just move on Tim. Ignore the sarcasm and FOCUS! DTTE is our resident devil's advocate, but his opinions and ideas are integral to your moving on.

If you aren't ready to listen to his advice, don't. Hopefully one day your outlook will be more open and you will realize that you need to think about your situation from all angles. Then you will realize how important his posts are. But for now, ask your questions, listen to the answers an stop attacking others.

[billiechic]

You need to give us details about how your time is structured with your child, what the parenting history was/is etc. I am not going back and reading 100 posts, so I suggest you start a new thread and begin again. Keep things simple, give the details we need and ask questions.

If you put the past 100 posts behind you the rest of us will too. You are not the first person to come here and get lashed and you won't be the last. Hey, maybe one day you will be the one giving a new person the reality check.

[Tim Cash]

sounds good to me as of the 117 I have asked 2 questions , the rest has been a pissing contest and its ridiculous.

Ok tis the standard on again off again relationship, been 3 yrs , we do own a home both on title , she had a child 6 months old when we got together , I have fathered her since then, she is 3 now and love her like my own. So please understand when I say "my kids" she is considered my kid.

She left the home with the child 10 months into the relationship, but we continued to carry on the relationship. Now we have since had a baby who is now 1 yr old. I do spend every weekend with my kids unless she is having a bad day and decides to not allow me to , keep in mind they used to come to my home . Now she has her own place she has made it very clear I need to come there if I want to see the kids. I agreed to this as her place is set up for the kids , But understand she is doing that to carry on the relationship.

When she first left she was staying at her fathers house, and she used to come to the home throughout the week with our daughter and every weekend and for the first 6 months of having our son. So truly its only been 6 months of her in her new place that I have been going there on weekends and sometimes during the week.

I dont know if any of this makes any seance?

[Tim Cash]

I did start a new thread under parenting issues , find me under "idiot here"