Help Divorcing my European husband

[jez]

Hi, i am looking for help and info on divorcing someone who is a non resident of Canada.
Everywehere I look they wnat lots of cash money to help someone.
And I feel they are trying to milk us for all we got.

I am a resident of ottawa, we got married in BC. He lives in The Netherlands, I am currently in ottawa, and want to get the process rolling since I am way in love with someone else, and would like to immigrate to Belgium or The Netherlands with him.

We would like our daughter to be in europe, and so are trying to get her nationality set up.
I will also like to live in Europe, but need to have this divorce done up so I can prove I am with my new partner for the needed amount of time to be considered together.

We have a good relationship me and the ex...
so we can work child care and support and custody things out by ourselves.

looking for advice

we dont need or want to go to court.

what is the best way to work this out?
any ideas?


Thanks for any imput