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Old 06-11-2013, 09:09 PM
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Hi,
First time poster. Here's my story.

Married 2004
First Daughter 2005
Second Daughter 2007
Seperated Jan 2013 (after a long battle)

Seperation was my idea, and wanted it for several years, just took a few years to go through marriage councilling. Ex husband started dating someone else before we signed the papers. Sold our home in April, and now I live on my own with my two daughters. I have the girls full time, except every second weekend and for a few hours one night a week.

Ex and I get along fairly well, until recently. He isn't paying 1/4 of what he should be in CS and he is fighting paying. Wants to try a mediator.

The battle is "Interesting"
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Old 06-12-2013, 10:03 AM
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Hi daisykay, I'm new as well, just wanted to give you a welcome
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Old 06-12-2013, 11:05 AM
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Hi,
First time poster. Here's my story.

Married 2004
First Daughter 2005
Second Daughter 2007
Seperated Jan 2013 (after a long battle)

Seperation was my idea, and wanted it for several years, just took a few years to go through marriage councilling. Ex husband started dating someone else before we signed the papers. Sold our home in April, and now I live on my own with my two daughters. I have the girls full time, except every second weekend and for a few hours one night a week.

Ex and I get along fairly well, until recently. He isn't paying 1/4 of what he should be in CS and he is fighting paying. Wants to try a mediator.

The battle is "Interesting"
Welcome to the board.

Why are the children not shared equally?
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Old 06-13-2013, 07:41 AM
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Hello,

Thanks for the Welcomes. The children are not shared equally becuase of his schedule for work. He is unable to ever pick them up for bring them to daycare. He typically works 6:00am to 6:00 pm. He works weekends as well. So, it is almost all on me.
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Old 06-13-2013, 11:34 AM
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Hello,

Thanks for the Welcomes. The children are not shared equally becuase of his schedule for work. He is unable to ever pick them up for bring them to daycare. He typically works 6:00am to 6:00 pm. He works weekends as well. So, it is almost all on me.
That's too bad.

You can certainly try mediation, but child support is pretty set in stone and he will lose.

Do you have an existing court order or agreement?

If so you can file it with FRO (Family Responsibility Office) or other similar office if you are not in Ontario and they will collect the money.
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