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Old 02-12-2016, 09:43 AM
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Thank you all for the great suggestions and support. It really helped seeing how so many kind people I haven't even "met" are trying to help me out. I am used to being the one other people lean on so it's heartwarming to see it's ok for me to lean a little too.

Hope everyone has a great weekend. I'll be doing a little packing, even if I don't know where I'm going yet!
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Old 02-12-2016, 11:17 AM
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Thank you all for the great suggestions and support. It really helped seeing how so many kind people I haven't even "met" are trying to help me out. I am used to being the one other people lean on so it's heartwarming to see it's ok for me to lean a little too.

Hope everyone has a great weekend. I'll be doing a little packing, even if I don't know where I'm going yet!
Hi there PM.

I created a thread a while back that relates to this one.

Have a peek. http://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/f...aration-18424/

Have a great weekend.
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Something that helped me is thinking about stress in a different way. As much as I can, I think that stress is a good thing. It creates energy and focus to help get out of a tough situation. I believe that stress is designed to help us perform, mentally and physically, in tough times.

Use the energy stress creates to your advantage.

But I admit, in times of high stress, it is sometimes hard to think this way.
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A quick update. I got some great news. I got the apartment I wanted so now I actually have somewhere to go after the house sale closes. I was so worried. It is a great relief. There are still some big issues unresolved, but housing was pretty critical so a lot of stress is gone. It's still sad that we had to sell, but we had to do what we had to do and move forward.

Thanks again guys for the support when I needed it.
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A quick update. I got some great news. I got the apartment I wanted so now I actually have somewhere to go after the house sale closes. I was so worried. It is a great relief. There are still some big issues unresolved, but housing was pretty critical so a lot of stress is gone. It's still sad that we had to sell, but we had to do what we had to do and move forward.

Thanks again guys for the support when I needed it.
nice to have an update..glad things worked out for the best for you.
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Old 02-20-2016, 02:42 PM
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Great news - yes uncertainty on where one is going to live would have been a huge stress.

New place = new beginnings for you.
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