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Old 05-15-2017, 01:15 PM
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I started trouble?
Yes, you stopped by just to roll your eyes. Douchy move.

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Issue isn't ODF, its you. When people disagree with you, or don't like what you said, there is zero requirement to argue to the ends of the earth about how right you feel you are, and how wrong everyone else is.
The issue isn't me here. I posted a very nice post about my mothers day. I didn't deserve any backlash. It's ridiculous. You even claimed you had nothing better to do this weekend and you enjoyed it. I didn't want to argue. A simple .. "glad you had a good mothers day LF32" would have sufficed. For some reason you're incapable. So here we are.
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This'll have to be another thread I test my willpower with to not respond to further garbage on.
Go roll your eyes and express jealousy over my awesome mothers day somewhere else. You make no sense here.

Go back and read my first post on this thread...read it over and over. Nothing negative .. all positive. Your dark rain cloud infested the thread first.

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[B]A simple glad you had a good mother's day LF32 would have sufficed.[B][B]

Bam! Yes, a simple HMD from the both of you would have sufficed. Point proved, case closed.
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Old 05-15-2017, 03:35 PM
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[B]A simple glad you had a good mother's day LF32 would have sufficed.[B][B]

Bam! Yes, a simple HMD from the both of you would have sufficed. Point proved, case closed.
I can elaborate more than 3 words about my mother's day if I want. I said nothing about my ex or mothers in a negative manner....because there is nothing negative for me to say. The attacks were unwarranted. Deep down I think most realize this. They just follow the herd. Me? I'm not a follower.

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Whatever your post was it was probably garbage anyways. (Hence it being deleted) .. all the mothers in my life deserved a superb mothers day and I gave it, and proud of it, and talked about it. Only in odf can that be turned in to something terrible.
Proof that you do not read, do not understand and comment on information that you shouldn't.

My post was not deleted. I already told you that.

It is still there. It moved up to number 4 (as I stated) because Jeff deleted/edited posts above mine. He must have deemed mine appropriate.

And yes, we get it LF. You are a fantastic Dad and boyfriend and you definitely made Mother's Day perfect for all. Interestingly I did not hear you speak about what you did for your own Mom. Only how you treated your girlfriend and your ex soooo perfectly. Slaved all day....

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Soiled is quite a trouble maker alright. From his really good choice of words "whine, moan, and bitch" to his post right here:

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Reread post 6 to get a reminder of the issue people had with your post. To add to It, that you think doing household chores to make a day special is ridiculous. You should be doing those things on a regular basis anyhow.

The chores LF32 mentioned are probably things they take turns or share doing and both contribute to. There is no only one person does all the work. I wonder if that is how you spoke to your ex and I wouldn’t be surprised if that’s what caused your ex to leave you. LF32 simply mentioned that she did all of the chores that they would both normally contribute to all on his own so that she wouldn’t have to do ANY house work on mother’s day. True gentlemen eh? He's got a new partner. Gentlemen like him usually don't stay single on the market for long.

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I spent the day making sure I had everything perfect for mothers day.
I spent quite a bit and just finished mopping, sweeping, yard maintenance, dishes, vacuuming, etc so that my g/f can wake up to a beautiful and relaxing day. My g/f and my mom are the glue to the family and I appreciate EVERYTHING they do.

It is so laughable how it is transparent that people skim over anything positive and only respond to things they think they can manipulate. People are so negative these days and doing nothing but spreading negativity around. Let’s look at some of the things that no one has pointed out or showed any appreciation for whatsoever.

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I dont know where i would be without my mother.
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Happy Mother's Day mom's .... Thank you for being awesome every day!!
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I got a "mother & Daughter" necklace for D5 to give her
My friend thinks it was very sweet of LF32 to do all of that and she thinks that it was especially sweet of him to give a mother and daughter necklace to her daughter for mother’s day and I agree.

I'm honestly taken aback. No where in our posts did LF32 and I project anything negative on to the mom's on this forum. So much for a "happy" mother's day intention. This was worst than world war 1.

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The point originally was that you should've just said happy Mother's Day to the forum members and left it at that.
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And yes, we get it LF. You are a fantastic Dad and boyfriend and you definitely made Mother's Day perfect for all. Interestingly I did not hear you speak about what you did for your own Mom. Only how you treated your girlfriend and your ex soooo perfectly. Slaved all day....
What's the point? On one hand your complaining about him talking about what he did on mother's day for his ex (or rather for his daughter) and for his girlfriend and on the other hand your complaining that the didn't talk about his own mom. You pushing and pulling at the same time and you're just looking for reasons to fight and argue. I'm sort of glad he didn't talk about his mom cuz there is not a doubt in my mind that people would have bashed him for doing so.

I'm actually glad you posted this. if the issue here was that I talked about my ex and that was somehow seen offensive to all the other moms, then how is your post any different if you're suggesting that he is a SLAVE to his ex and his current girlfriend who are both single and/or seperated re-married moms ? If he helped out his mom then he wouldn't be a slave? Is there something different between your own mother and single or re-married moms ?
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Old 05-15-2017, 06:19 PM
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Proof that you do not read, do not understand and comment on information that you shouldn't.

My post was not deleted. I already told you that.

It is still there. It moved up to number 4 (as I stated) because Jeff deleted/edited posts above mine. He must have deemed mine appropriate.

And yes, we get it LF. You are a fantastic Dad and boyfriend and you definitely made Mother's Day perfect for all. Interestingly I did not hear you speak about what you did for your own Mom. Only how you treated your girlfriend and your ex soooo perfectly. Slaved all day....
Oh boy...So my own mom had flowers delivered to her home and we spent a long time on the phone. She was very ill this weekend and requested that we celebrate her mothers day next weekend when we go down. Is that okay S&T or is that unacceptable to you? Is it also okay that I took a vacation day today as I note you took personal jabs at my employment again. Anything else?

You're so upset that my 2 little girls and I treated their mother well.....I can't begin to describe how disturbing this is to me...and my g/f reading. She's concerned about your mental health .. so am I.

My g/f is sitting here reading this is complete awe ... like I'm the only guy who does what I did on Mother's Day? My g/f does an aweful lot for this family and she deserved everything. My own mother deserves what I will be doing for her this weekend.

S&T .. my g/f says she wishes you well. Try to smile. She promises sh'es super content over her treatment on Mother's Day and feels sad for you that you're combative and upset over our happiness. It's very troubling to read.

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Old 05-15-2017, 06:33 PM
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The same posters who preach not to argue in circles and to leave threads alone.....go against their own advice and come arguing in circles....over what? Over me saying Happy Mothers Day and describing what I did?

The reasoning is that "LF32 always has to be right?" Am I supposed to say that I'm wrong? That I shouldn't have treated my g/f to this? That I shouldn't have wished all odf mothers a Happy Mothers Day and described what I did? I am right .. I did those things and they were appreciated .. there's no way I'm taking those positive messages back and say I'm wrong. Why the hell would I do that?

You dont like a warm Happy Mothers Day story ... there are many other threads to post on.

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Keep on spreading the lies LF.

EAs and ECE's are covered by the same union. We are not provided vacation days for the same reason we are not paid in the summer, which you have already claimed to have received. Vacation time is added to your pay. It is not possible you had a vacation day today.

Happy Mother's Day LF. What's on tap for Father's Day? Will the g/f return the favour? ��
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