Ottawa Divorce .com Forums


User CP

New posts

Advertising

  Ottawa Divorce .com Forums > Main Category > General Chat

General Chat This forum is for discussing anything that doesn't fit into another forum, or for discussing things that are off topic, or just for general venting.

Closed Thread
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
  #1 (permalink)  
Old 03-15-2012, 01:54 AM
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2011
Posts: 19
Patty60 is on a distinguished road
Default Grandparents Denied Access

After some time I am posting the recent developments of my case. We were denied access to our two grandchildren after we had a established strong bonds with them from birth. The reason for the denied access was my daughter's hookup with an abusive ex-boyfriend. He used her chidren to manipulate us primarily to control her and for financial gain from us.
We went to court, the judge gave us access. Now my daughter completely broke her ties with this loser, she and the kids are back living with us temporarily. The court ordered family counselling. We requested access in writing and said documnet to be sanctioned by the court.
All you nay-sayers, who previously thought it was a losing propositon, keep in mind the "best interest of the child" does truimph, even for grandparents.
  #2 (permalink)  
Old 03-15-2012, 06:57 AM
Tayken's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: May 2011
Posts: 6,486
Tayken has a brilliant futureTayken has a brilliant futureTayken has a brilliant futureTayken has a brilliant futureTayken has a brilliant futureTayken has a brilliant futureTayken has a brilliant futureTayken has a brilliant futureTayken has a brilliant futureTayken has a brilliant futureTayken has a brilliant future
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Patty60 View Post
After some time I am posting the recent developments of my case. We were denied access to our two grandchildren after we had a established strong bonds with them from birth. The reason for the denied access was my daughter's hookup with an abusive ex-boyfriend. He used her chidren to manipulate us primarily to control her and for financial gain from us.
We went to court, the judge gave us access. Now my daughter completely broke her ties with this loser, she and the kids are back living with us temporarily. The court ordered family counselling. We requested access in writing and said documnet to be sanctioned by the court.
All you nay-sayers, who previously thought it was a losing propositon, keep in mind the "best interest of the child" does truimph, even for grandparents.
What is the court file number? As it is a matter of public record it would be simple for you to produce the evidence that this is the truth. Furthermore, it would be of benefit to others if you provided the posted decision regarding the matter.

Furthermore, from your past posting and time to this posting is incredibly fast. I am assuming that this decision you won was on an "emergency" filing and matters were brought to trial.

As all court documents are part of the public record you can "prove" your "evidence" you have given here by simply providing the court file number and jurisdiction.

Other than proving that what you are saying is truthful with cogent evidence to the emotional reasoning you are providing it is just a posting on a message board.

Good Luck!
Tayken
  #3 (permalink)  
Old 03-15-2012, 08:31 AM
Senior Member
 
Join Date: May 2011
Location: Ontario
Posts: 3,035
Berner_Faith will become famous soon enough
Default

I would be interested in seeing this also... is it possible court was never involved and the daughter just ended up breaking up with the boyfriend and now is back home for the time being? Prove all of us nay-sayers wrong and provide the court file number.
  #4 (permalink)  
Old 03-15-2012, 09:15 AM
hadenough's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2011
Posts: 2,468
hadenough is on a distinguished road
Default

I'm just jumping in here and didn't read P60's other posts but I do know that Grandparents are being given more consideration these days, than in the past. Also: a lawyer told me that only Superior Court Judgments are posted on CanLii, not OCJ (Provincial) ones. I wish mine was on there: I'd love for ppl to be able to see it.
  #5 (permalink)  
Old 03-15-2012, 09:44 AM
Senior Member
 
Join Date: May 2011
Location: Ontario
Posts: 3,035
Berner_Faith will become famous soon enough
Default

Hadenough, that is not true... CanLII - Decisions issued in March 2012

I agree that Grandparents are getting more rights and they should, however the time lines with this OP seem to be very fast to have been to court and already have a decision.
  #6 (permalink)  
Old 03-15-2012, 09:49 AM
hadenough's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2011
Posts: 2,468
hadenough is on a distinguished road
Default

BernerFaith: Pls PM me and I'll send you my Court File #. I don't know how to use the PM except to reply. Maybe b/c I'm on my BB, I don't know - but I'd love to know if you can view it. Lol: I also don't know how to capture ppl's quotes in my replies - the ones that appear "outlined" when ppl on here are responding point by point to someone's post.
  #7 (permalink)  
Old 03-15-2012, 10:09 AM
hadenough's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2011
Posts: 2,468
hadenough is on a distinguished road
Default

BF. Thx for that link. Guess that lawyer misinformed me. I checked and FOUND my order/decision. Wow, I had no idea it was on there. I'm glad it's somewhere. It sure isn't w/FRO yet. My apologies for earlier statement: that OCJ decisions were not on CanLii.
  #8 (permalink)  
Old 03-15-2012, 10:20 AM
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2010
Posts: 451
Exquizique is on a distinguished road
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by hadenough View Post
BF. Thx for that link. Guess that lawyer misinformed me. I checked and FOUND my order/decision. Wow, I had no idea it was on there. I'm glad it's somewhere. It sure isn't w/FRO yet. My apologies for earlier statement: that OCJ decisions were not on CanLii.
Hadenough, if you are comfortable sharing, I would also like to read about your case. The circumstances of it as you described so far on this forum are certainly quite odd/interesting. Please PM me with the details if you are comfortable sharing, thanks (Or would you like me to PM you and you can reply?)
  #9 (permalink)  
Old 03-15-2012, 10:24 AM
hadenough's Avatar
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2011
Posts: 2,468
hadenough is on a distinguished road
Default

EXQ; pm me and no I don't mind sharing. Ticks me off that wrong date is on decision (they added an extra day?) and there are typo's (sloppy) but I will give you the info. I had no idea it was on there. Thx BernerFaith.
  #10 (permalink)  
Old 03-15-2012, 10:44 AM
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2011
Posts: 2,800
Pursuinghappiness will become famous soon enough
Default

Hadenough:

Can you forward that to FRO or does it have to be stamped?
Closed Thread


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Denied Christmas access knackered Divorce & Family Law 20 01-03-2012 09:11 AM
Custody and Access Decision-Making and the Breastfeeding Child: Cavannah v. Johne WorkingDAD Divorce & Family Law 8 05-03-2011 10:55 AM
Have I given up my rights as a parent? brokendad Common Law Issues 3 11-05-2009 06:57 PM
are a mother or father and denied access? Ihave2kidsIcannotsee Divorce & Family Law 12 02-16-2009 06:43 PM
Are you denied access to your children? Ihave2kidsIcannotsee Divorce & Family Law 1 01-27-2009 08:35 AM


All times are GMT -4. The time now is 07:35 AM.