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Old 12-09-2015, 07:06 PM
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I was in court for 2 days and I heard some interesting things....

Apparently last father's day my daughter made me a card and she wrote in it:

"Daddy, when I tell you to stop, please stop"

So the school called in the mom and because they though I might be sexually abusing her....

Turns out my daughter wrote that because....
I tickle her too much and I don't stop when she asks me too.....

I'm happy the thing my daughter dislikes the most about me is I tickle her too much....

Anyways, all this was happening unbeknowst to me.....

Weird, huh...
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Old 12-18-2015, 08:42 AM
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There's a whole line of thought that too much tickling and tickling when someone says no is abusive. I had never considered that before, but I can understand it, and tend to follow that belief now. You could be taking tickling past her comfort level.
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Old 12-18-2015, 12:43 PM
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Funny you posted this today -
I got a card today from my daughter and it says "I love it when you give me hugs and kisses"

As crazy as it sounds I can understand your point but its not something that happens regularly, maybe once (I can't think of an incident) I tickled her but even then there was no sense that she didn't like it or anything. God, it makes it sound like rape (that was what as being implied) I wonder how it stacked against my wife assaulting me, slapping my son and throwing a knife at him.

I asked my daughter about the other issue (asked "around" the issue) she has no IDEA what was being suggested. My ex-wife made it seem so dramatic, teachers, psychologist, principal etc.... My daughter had no idea that's for sure, nobody spoke to her either.

I think the whole issue was manufactured now....
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Old 12-18-2015, 12:50 PM
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It's awful when people take things out of context to look bad/use as evidence. I can see why they wanted to ask some questions though.

You didn't do anything wrong. That would have been clear with a few questions.
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