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Old 05-15-2011, 04:12 PM
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Very new dude. Not looking for marriage or even cohab at this point. Just enjoying the moment, and smelling the flowers.

Never say never.
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I really do wish you well, but I'm personally so pissed off/bummed out that due to the crap my ex is putting me through, she's basically guaranteeing that I can never trust another female again, at least not without her being inspected/vetted by an army of lawyers and accountants and even then I'm not sure it will be safe lol.

On the other hand, perhaps she's done me a big favour. I used to be somewhat idealistic (as I've got older that's been diminishing of course) and she's very successfully killed off whatever is remaining.

I still hate the family law crap; as far as I'm concerned its made it ATTRACTIVE for women to screw over husbands who work hard to make a good living for their family. I wonder if it would be so appealing if I made minimum wage ........
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Old 05-15-2011, 04:46 PM
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It takes years to heal the hurt. Did for me. You will feel differently in time.
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Appreciate your optimistic advice but I truly doubt it.

We all know the odds of getting screwed over by your ex (Ie.divorced) is 50%. I've now been burned once - so much for optimism/good faith/idealism/romanticism.

Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.

I won't make the same mistake twice, trust me .......
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Very new dude. Not looking for marriage or even cohab at this point. Just enjoying the moment, and smelling the flowers.

Never say never.
Very true, very true.

There is time for everything. Give everything its' time.
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Old 05-16-2011, 10:36 AM
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I won't make the same mistake twice, trust me .......
Lighten up, Gloomy Gus!

I bet you (best Dr Evil impersonation with pinky and corner of mouth) One MILLION dollars that you'll change your tune in time.

I get that you don't want to change your tune. Sometimes you get comfy and safe and like things the way they are, even if you do feel a bit lonely now and again. You think to yourself that this life is not so bad and that ain't nobody gonna mess with you again. It's not perfect, but it's OK and those walls are high and sturdy and impeneterable and perfect to hide behind. And then, and then, and THEN, somebody comes along out of nowhere and TOTALLY rocks your world. Just sayin' ...

I think Fergie said it best:

"My world is crushed and I'm all alone
The love bug crawls right back up and bites me and I'm back"


We are meant to love and be loved and so to refuse to open the door when (s)he comes knocking is just plain stooooooooooooooooooooopid. I almost (ALMOST) made that mistake but am ecstatic that I didn't

Cheers!

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Wwwwwooooo wwwweeeee, you take off for a few lovely dates and look what happens. Everything goes to shit, ha ha ha ha

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