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Old 02-19-2016, 01:35 PM
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that his parents willingly gave to him... .
as he did to her, in their settlement agreement.
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that his parents willingly gave to him... there is a difference..
Oh please....

I am sure that the guy has a brain. You insult men everywhere by acting like they are simply pawns used by women.

He pursued her. He slept with her without a condom. He didn't have her sign a prenup. I am sure he knew the risk but did it anyway.

If he didn't want to pay for a child, he should have worn a condom, had a vasectomy or masturbated.
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as he did to her, in their settlement agreement.
A lie.... it was under threat of trial - I am sure he didn't just agree for fun.

I can make anybody agree to anything if the alternative is a gun to their head (i.e: Trial in a broken system)

The fallacy of settlements is that they are entered into willingly... never accept any unfair settlement because it will ALWAYS be said "you agreed".

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Oh please....

I am sure that the guy has a brain. You insult men everywhere by acting like they are simply pawns used by women.

He pursued her. He slept with her without a condom. He didn't have her sign a prenup. I am sure he knew the risk but did it anyway.

If he didn't want to pay for a child, he should have worn a condom, had a vasectomy or masturbated.
Haha... no pregnancy in the world is worth the milions of dollars that he will have to pay.

No rational person without direct knowledge of family law would ever conclude that a child could cost you tens of millions of dollars...

The sick twisted world of family law....
Q: "What do you do for a living"

A: "I got impregnated by a rich guy and left him the following week now I earn way more money than I ever imagined and I will be able to put away enough in my savings account to never have to work again"

Q: "You go girl - this is the equality we fought for!!"

A: "I'm gonna make him pay, that deadbeat!!"
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The sick twisted world of family law....
Q: "What do you do for a living"

A: "I got impregnated by a rich guy and left him the following week now I earn way more money than I ever imagined and I will be able to put away enough in my savings account to never have to work again"
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This particular couple was married for 7 years prior to seperating. I presume the kids were around for a few years prior to seperation.
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Wealthy families generally understand very well the financial cost of a failed marriage. All understand the impact of failed marriages on the family estate. This further fuels the not-so-uncommon desire for one's children to marry within the inner circles.

A costly divorce and ensuing child support would not be a surprise to a family such as this.
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This particular couple was married for 7 years prior to seperating. I presume the kids were around for a few years prior to seperation.
I was illustrating a hypothetical possibility which is supported by the current legal system, 7 days, 7 years, it makes no difference really...
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Links, I am genuinely asking, do you ever see a situation where child support is justified?
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Links, I am genuinely asking, do you ever see a situation where child support is justified?
Yes, in sole custody situations or situations where the non-custodial parent has no fixed expenses for the children and up to an amount proportionate to how much that non-custodial parent would have spent on the child had they been in the same household and only as much as 50% of the amount the custodial parent is actually spending directly on the child (proportionate share of rent, electricity etc..) - any benefits accrued due to real estate inflation.....

Not 10 million dollars...
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