Ottawa Divorce .com Forums


User CP

New posts

Advertising

  Ottawa Divorce .com Forums > Main Category > Divorce Support

Divorce Support This forum is for discussing the emotional aspects of divorce: stress, anger, betrayal of trust and more.

Closed Thread
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
  #1 (permalink)  
Old 10-31-2005, 08:44 AM
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2005
Posts: 21
kconnections is on a distinguished road
Default To trust again

For those who had their trust broken badly by their ex, have you found it difficult to trust again? I am having this problem now. I do not like to be in this position but it is quite difficult to begin trusting others when you have had your heart broken.
  #2 (permalink)  
Old 10-31-2005, 04:24 PM
Moderator
 
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: Ontario
Posts: 3,944
logicalvelocity has a spectacular aura aboutlogicalvelocity has a spectacular aura aboutlogicalvelocity has a spectacular aura about
Send a message via Yahoo to logicalvelocity
Default

Kconnections,

I agree. It is very difficult to trust again. Take time for yourself. In time you will dismantle the wall brick by brick and you will be able to trust others again. Trust is earned and it is precious, not to be taken for granted.
  #3 (permalink)  
Old 11-01-2005, 08:28 PM
nikitaforce's Avatar
Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: Oshawa
Posts: 82
nikitaforce will become famous soon enoughnikitaforce will become famous soon enough
Default

Hey there Kconnections,
I agree with the above...take your time...you know what? you shouldn't trust anyone at first...trust should be earned and if you meet the right person they will quickly earn it...otherwise be careful...there are many thieves of the heart out there and they should not be trusted. Be smart...take care of you first and any one who is trustworthy will respect that!!
  #4 (permalink)  
Old 11-15-2005, 12:55 AM
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2005
Posts: 19
SigRent is on a distinguished road
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by nikitaforce
Hey there Kconnections,
I agree with the above...take your time...you know what? you shouldn't trust anyone at first...trust should be earned and if you meet the right person they will quickly earn it...otherwise be careful...there are many thieves of the heart out there and they should not be trusted. Be smart...take care of you first and any one who is trustworthy will respect that!!

I totally agree trust isnt something that comes easy or given to someone for christmas, you have to earn it. Although you can usually tell someone trust worthy within a few days/weeks of knowing them.
  #5 (permalink)  
Old 11-17-2005, 03:48 PM
Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2005
Posts: 50
lammie is on a distinguished road
Default

I think most people have at least a few major issues of broken trust in a relationship in their lifetimes. I also think it is something that is never possible to recover 100%. You are always going to be more cautious and wary as you move on. But that is the key, you must move on. You can't hold your next partner responsible for everything your ex did. If you do, you will find yourself never able to get into a relationship of real satisfaction.
  #6 (permalink)  
Old 12-03-2005, 08:27 PM
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2005
Posts: 128
Julie is on a distinguished road
Default

My current partner is very trustworthy, so I dont believe that every relationship should have trust issues.
Definitely a bad experience can taint you for life, but try not to let it make you believe you can never trust someone again, because that is just not true
Closed Thread


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On



All times are GMT -4. The time now is 08:03 PM.