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Old 09-24-2012, 05:55 PM
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F@%#$&*^@#$%^&#$%^&*()#$%^&*(#$%^&*()$%^&*(#()$%@# $%^&*()CK!!!!!!!

There, I feel better now!

Been working on a separation agreement knowing that it was going to be frustrating and I needed to vent in a area away from my stbx and children. We have every intention of doing this as much lawyer free as possible but sometimes a person needs to release some energy and frustration in a safe and non damaging way.

Thank you ODF.

Anyone feeling a bit like screaming? Feel free to let one howl on this thread
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OMG Slug that's absolutely hilarious...still laughing!!!!!
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Old 09-24-2012, 09:24 PM
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Yes, SH is about as funny as rubber crutches. I won't spoil the good humour w/the 1st sarcastic thought that came to my mind.

To OP: yes it seems that drafting up SA's are high up there on the stress-o-meter. I didn't have a SA. Ex refused to sign one or look at one. I don't doubt that it must be a major pain in the butt.
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Old 09-24-2012, 09:41 PM
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Honestly, can kick myself when I declined my Ex's offer to walk and I could let her know what was hers........ today or at least once in a while I wish I had an ex that would at least communicate more than, mine, hers, oh and my favorite, I don't understand those act things....... so NO! I still like to get a chuckle when I sat there in front of the mediator after she well screamed for five minutes straight and never stopped as the door hit her backside on the way out.... His very last words, "Please get a good lawyer!". I kick myself once in a while for not taking her up on it......

But hadenough, how did you manage to escape without one???
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Old 09-24-2012, 10:08 PM
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Ddol, first off - I was dealing with a card-carrying CRETIN/Colossal Ass. Secondly, I can't be sure but the/his departure in handcuffs may have paved the way for no S.A.

I really am not sure, to be perfectly honest.

The irony is: I still haven't 'escaped.'
^ that almost sounds like potential lyrics to a country music ballad

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Old 09-24-2012, 10:23 PM
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handcuffs.....now that brings back wonderfull memories.... was a great x-mas parting gift perhaps fitting being a day late!

I can feel for your "non-escape" - I feel it every single day.....

And I still hold the hope for one day......
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[can't believe you guys are talking about handcuffs and slughead hasn't chimed in yet]

I had a particularly satisfying event a few days ago. No handcuffs - just ex's g/f grovelling.
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Old 09-24-2012, 11:29 PM
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That is CLASSIC, arabian. Did you find that to be stress-relieving?
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Old 09-24-2012, 11:34 PM
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I'm finding it a great stress relief that my ex is out of the country for three weeks. I thought not getting the break from being single mom that his access provides would be stressful, but it turns out I like not having to see him even better.
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Old 09-24-2012, 11:37 PM
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I saw my lawyer before I met up with the g/f. My lawyer told me to try to not look too smug. LOL.

Considering a few years ago this person tried to put a peace bond on me (I had to hire a criminal lawyer) and has been a primary reason for the numerous legal battles (family and business issues) I've endured for 3 yrs - yes extremely satisfying.

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