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Old 01-08-2014, 09:03 PM
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I hope you enjoyed yourself that week.

Compared to what women go through it is such a non-issue.
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I hope you enjoyed yourself that week.

Compared to what women go through it is such a non-issue.
I don't know who had it worse - him or me, this guy would freak out when he had a garden-variety cold ... you'd think he was giving birth or something, what a fuss he made lol!

Seriously, if a couple is considering permanent birth control, vasectomy is the way to go, it really is a simple procedure (and for those who fear it might affect their libido/performance, there's nothing to worry about.)
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I know several people who have had it reversed and they went on to have more children.
I can assure you that I won't be part of that statistic

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Just some friendly advice from one who knows.
Oh...you've had it done too?????

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I hope you enjoyed yourself that week
hey now....wink wink, yes.

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he went straight to the gym the next day and .... well, his 'ding-dongs' swelled up to the size of bowling balls.
I have been advised to park my running and other "physical activities" for a few days.

I am finding out that a bag of frozen mixed vegetables can serve a different purpose

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Old 01-08-2014, 09:35 PM
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Good for you for being a brave, smart young man FWB. You will likely find it enhances your sex live as you are now "safe" and secure in the knowledge you won't be getting anyone pregnant. How liberating for you and your next partner!
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I can assure you that I won't be part of that statistic

Oh...you've had it done too?????

hey now....wink wink, yes.

I have been advised to park my running and other "physical activities" for a few days.

I am finding out that a bag of frozen mixed vegetables can serve a different purpose
Make sure that includes vacuuming and heavy lifting.
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Depriving the world of more of my children seems cruel, if I have lots of kids I can just claim undue hardship and I think in quebec they can't take more than 50% of ur salary in child suppport so I think by the 2nd pair the pot will just have to be split.
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Old 01-08-2014, 11:37 PM
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Links this one is for you:

Moors v Moors, 2013 ABQB 740

Now this is what I call "substantial child support"
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I've had it done as well. For me, I have enough kids, and most women in my age bracket, including my GF, aren't interested in kids at our mature age.

It wasn't a big deal, slight discomfort and minor swelling. I was dilligent about the after care insructions.
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and most women in my age bracket, including my GF, aren't interested in kids at our mature age.
May be so, may be not.....not about to take that chance based on "most mature women don't want kids"..I'll rather not be surprised

This article begs to differ...older women having babies
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May be so, may be not.....not about to take that chance based on "most mature women don't want kids"..I'll rather not be surprised

This article begs to differ...older women having babies
Well by mature I mean over 40. I realize more women are trying it, but I am not convinced that more = most.
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