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Divorce Support This forum is for discussing the emotional aspects of divorce: stress, anger, betrayal of trust and more.

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Old 11-23-2015, 04:32 PM
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Your child growing older may be a benefit to you soon. As he grows into his early teen years, his wishes should carry more sway over your ex. Teenagers have a way of making their displeasure known and your ex may find it is better to let him have the time with you he wants if she wants a peaceful household.
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Old 11-23-2015, 04:51 PM
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If I were you Id let her stew for a few days. Sounds like she had a bad day and wants to use you as a punching bag. Remember theyre just words. Not having an agreement works both ways. Shes demonstrated a pattern shes ok with (50/50) so getting full would be hard and cost her money too.
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Old 11-23-2015, 04:55 PM
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The way I see it is, deal with everything right away and quickly so these problems don't drag on. Also, the more attention you give her, the more she'll take.

Should never agree to something you aren't comfortable living with forever...
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Old 11-23-2015, 05:06 PM
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Should never agree to something you aren't comfortable living with forever...
That's true. But originally when we agreed (coerced?) to some of this, that was long ago before I found the Ottawa Divorce forums, and at that time I was only hearing "every other weekend" Dad, from her, and lawyers I consulted.
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Old 11-23-2015, 05:14 PM
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...Not having an agreement works both ways. Shes demonstrated a pattern shes ok with (50/50) so getting full would be hard and cost her money too.
Agreed. If it came to that, after all these years, would a judge give me more equal time - I highly think so. Would my time be scaled back, or custody only given to her - I really doubt it.
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