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Old 04-05-2010, 06:26 PM
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Default I feel nauseous :(

I feel nauseous all the time.

I can't seem to get my head around the fact that he doesn't want me anymore.

We still live in the same house together, which I find agonizing...

He does small things just to get to me...me made me give up my car (in his name) and now he is driving it.( he has his own vehicle)

He has cleaned all of my belongings out of our cottage and changed the locks...the list goes on.

I feel sick...
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Find some activities that will get you out of the house. Even long walks.

And get some counselling.
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is a tough process especially when i take it that is was his idea to end the relationship. It will get better in time. Like dadtotheend said, get some hobbies or something to take your mind off things. Maybe get a pet so you know there is someone (even if it is a furbaby) at home who needs and wants you.
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Contact your local womens shelter, they provide the counselling that you need.
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Contact your local womens shelter, they provide the counselling that you need.
Yes, you will definately benefit from the support available at your local shelter. They will provide you not only with all the resources you need, but many times they have an outreach worker on staff, that is available to talk with you one on one. I hope you will contact them soon.
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well...I guess I am not allowed to have any privacy, he kick my bedroom door in, cause I locked it. Says he won't be locked out of anything in his own home.
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Old 04-06-2010, 09:06 PM
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If he's abusive or violent like that then call the police and file a report and let them know you feel threatened. Take pictures of the damage and document all incidents and everything that is going on, give a copy to a friend for safe keeping if need be.

It is hard to get through but you will survive, surround yourself with as much support as you can. There's a saying that when people show you who they truly are, believe them the first time. He's showing his true colours now and obviously trying to wear you down. Remind yourself frequently that he is not rejecting you, rather YOU don't want to be with someone like HIM that would do this to you.
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Old 04-06-2010, 09:11 PM
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blink, thank you..you are right...he says i am being dumped cause I am a two face C**t...he 's so sweet to me.... in reality I kinda am looking forward to being free from him.
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Old 04-06-2010, 09:18 PM
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Not 'kind of'....you ARE.
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Old 04-06-2010, 09:25 PM
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yes...I are...
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