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Old 07-26-2010, 06:13 PM
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You are facing the worse effect of separtaion "SOCIAL ISOLATION".I am an Indian where separated women means someone evil(something really bad with the women thats why husband left her irrespective of who wanted out)and live in a area where there are lots of middle easterns.So I faced the same problem .With time you will have some good friends
Develop a hobby and if nothing else take your child and go sit in a park.


Thinking of your ex is very normal for now.Try getting over it and don't recall any nice moments withhim.Just think of yourself and your child.
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I also come from a background where divorce is upon. I feel like some of my family is ashamed at me and the situation I am in. Everyone still thinks and asks if we can still work it out.
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I also come from a background where divorce is upon. I feel like some of my family is ashamed at me and the situation I am in. Everyone still thinks and asks if we can still work it out.
Tug you say you think they're ashamed, but have you asked them? Maybe your feelings are more self inflicted and really your family is trying to support you but in the same time wants to make sure you're making the right decision. I would have a talk with them and express your feelings on the issue and you just might me surprised.

I still thing my camping idea is the way to go
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Old 07-26-2010, 09:24 PM
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I haven't directly came out and asked but things have been quite different around alot of my family. Most of them saw it coming I guess you could say. They seen the way I was treated but kept quiet but still don't believe in divorce. You can't help but feel like the black sheep in the family, and I come from a large family.
This isn't my decision to make. I don't believe in giving up, I believe in working at it, getting the help we need but it's the other party that wants this and truthfully how could I possibly even want him back in my life especially after all the events leading up to this point and how unattached emotionally etc he is with our child. That would make anyone sick.....

Sorry, thanks about the camping suggestion, but Im not fond of the outdoors especially over nite with all those cougars and bears..... who will protect us? lol
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Old 07-26-2010, 09:27 PM
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Any given Sunday! I was waiting for my invite.....
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Any given Sunday! I was waiting for my invite.....
Go for it. You're a match made in heavenly hash ice cream.

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DDTE you can be odd sometimes.... just odd, that's the only way I can describe it......
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I also come from a background where divorce is upon. I feel like some of my family is ashamed at me and the situation I am in. Everyone still thinks and asks if we can still work it out.

Fortunately I had my sister's support(emotional and financial)


Thats nothing ,once a women suggested me (in her words)---NEXT TIME WHEN YOUR HUSBAND COMES TO PICK UP THE KIDS ,APOLOZISE AND TELL HIM THAT IF HE TAKES YOU BACK YOU ARE WILLING TO LIVE YOUR LIFE ON HIS ORDERS..
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