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Old 11-01-2012, 06:01 PM
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I am considering taking the mother of my grandson to court so i can see him (note they have not been together since baby was born and he was in the delivery room and our family at the hospital . I have checked about a police clearance and the CAS clearance needed there will be no issue getting them. since my grandson was born we have been allowed to see him off and on as his mother permits usually once a year if we give her CASH or pay for something. 3 years ago my son took her to court for mediation with a legal aid lawyer. agreements for support and visitation was made but then she decided she was not signing ( everything was according to her wishes) my son has given up feels the system let him down .
does anyone have some advice before i fill out the forms? What court should i use Ontario or superior? what will the court cost be i am self represented.
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Old 11-01-2012, 06:03 PM
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If I was you I would throw support behind your son so he has access to the child, then when he does you can see the kid. He may have a better chance then you do.
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Old 11-01-2012, 06:13 PM
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i would like to but he given up on the legal system it her game , you can see if i get cash (only cash) and she refused to sign any agreement he tired of the game and financially cant afford a lawyer , i here for him but i want to see my grandson l
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Old 11-01-2012, 06:37 PM
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hmm the first post was so nicely written, then the second post sounds like storm is back
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Old 11-01-2012, 06:43 PM
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i'm just frustrated and want to see my grandson . neither of his parents are willing to give . so i feel this is my only solution. it better that i try than not try at all and never see him except in picture on FB that is not the kind of grandparent. i want to be' I want to be able to take him boating, fishing .to mcdonalds etc
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Old 11-01-2012, 07:23 PM
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Verrrry Strange. Is Patty60 back? Perhaps not, but something very bizarre about the writing style. The 2nd post veers way off from the baseline of the poster's tone in the original post :/ Sounds rather "Storm(y)"
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Old 11-01-2012, 07:37 PM
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stormy maybe i am frustrated and was hoping someone might give me some advice about using the family law reform act to get visitation as a 3rd party as that is my intention to get access to see my grandson.

may i ask who who the heck is patty 60? check my profile i am definitely not her
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I second SoTSL and Hadenough's observations. The writing pattern and style of speech is just too "stormy".
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Old 11-01-2012, 09:55 PM
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my son is considering giving up his parental rights .that is why i'm looking to get access i still am willing to fight to see my grandson and pleaded with my son not to give away his rights .He has given up and doesn't want to fight anymore to see his son even tho he loves him. Should i fight to see my grandson that is my question ? Or just walk away ?
I can take the criticism and the comments .I just want to do the right thing.
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Yep definitely a pattern. Geesh - some people never get it do they?

My advice: Go to the south. Take a nice long vacation. Adopt a chinchilla. Take up body surfing in Atlanta. Get a life!
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