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Old 04-27-2012, 09:29 AM
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InSeperationHell,

I'm located in Ottawa, Perth actually, and fully appreciate your comments as i'm living the same hell only the tables are turned.
If/when your ever in the area, please PM or email me for a chat over coffee or whatever.

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Old 04-27-2012, 12:19 PM
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LMAO at all the suggestions...can I add one...pof! I would say I am kidding, but I am not! When you are ready for dating of course. I did that, and I will tell you just going out to dinner, or an amusement park with someone who tells you that you are pretty, or funny, or smart can do a wonder to your self esteem and your outlook.

And FTR, I suggest POF in the best intentions. There are people on there that are cheaters, just looking for a hookup, or whatever. But if you are smart, and approach it knowing these things, you can make great friends on there, or find someone to love. I have, and I have never been happier.

oh, and 3 years post separation, I still have bottom of the pit days. They just happen much less often, and not every day!
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Old 04-27-2012, 12:27 PM
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BC: too funny. Well your little story is certainly encouraging. Thanks! Not really looking for a guy - I'm feeling like I have a sign on my head that says "stay away, black cloud zone!" But I've always been quite gifted when it comes to getting attention from any man.. lol, that I don't want!! If I put together a 'coffee table' book of the shit I have heard, omg - a few eyebrows would be raised.

Particularly unsettling is how many married/attached guys try it on w/me. WTH? I pretty much feel that until ALL this legal crap is out of the way - that there is no long-term relationship in my immediate future. But good for you! I hope things will work out very well for you and your little girl.
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POF: Worked for me!
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Old 04-27-2012, 05:14 PM
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Apparently POF worked for Michael Rafferty too!

Blatchford: Shortly after Tori's death, Rafferty busy juggling sex calendar
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^ oh God! You're kidding! I guess it's not that surprising really. The gruesome twosome - reminiscent of Homolka-Bernardo. *chills*
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What is POF ?
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Old 04-27-2012, 09:24 PM
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What is POF ?
plenty of fish
i met the guy iI have been dating for over a year on there plus a man who has become a really great friend. Also had some totally idiots contact me but its to be expected.
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Hey, maybe I will have to try POF.....
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I had doubts too so I went back and here I am 5 months later in the same situation I was over a year ago .... wanting to end it. BUT .... this time I have clarity .... I have been able to communicate with my friends what I have been going through ... I have been able to communicate with my kids .... I have been able to come to the realization that being alone is much better than being with him. I know now I miss the "routine" and the "memories" and the "lifestyle" .... but .... I am hopeful that I will meet someone great - whenever that happens. I am much more at peace with my decision this time.
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