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Old 04-27-2017, 04:27 PM
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Im confused. Has the ex filed a motion for the school expenses or did your husband file?

What is the status?
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After 3 years and approx. $12,000 to get the information that is rightfully ours, that being the proper expenses,loans, grants, we are now left with mediation with an opposing lawyer that does not want to mediate but just wants us to pay more. At case conference it was agreed that child support was to end in April. Well FRO took Mays support and our lawyer says to proceed is going to be too costly to not know if there is going to be any satisfaction out of the end result. So our only option is to just drop it and take the loss of about $50,000 or to proceed with no lawyer. We are concerned as we do not know the costs involved with no lawyer and also how do we get to see a judge???
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After 3 years and approx. $12,000 to get the information that is rightfully ours, that being the proper expenses,loans, grants, we are now left with mediation with an opposing lawyer that does not want to mediate but just wants us to pay more. At case conference it was agreed that child support was to end in April. Well FRO took Mays support and our lawyer says to proceed is going to be too costly to not know if there is going to be any satisfaction out of the end result. So our only option is to just drop it and take the loss of about $50,000 or to proceed with no lawyer. We are concerned as we do not know the costs involved with no lawyer and also how do we get to see a judge???


Was a new order provided from this case conference? If yes, did your husband submit it to FRO? If no, expect CS to come out for June as well. Without a new court order submitted to FRO, FRO will continue to collect the CS as per the order

As for the $50,000 I don't think you will ever recoup that... and to try will be costly. Unfortunately your husband is also at fault for this over payment for not demanding the information and letting it go on for 4 years. By your own admission he was trusting of her and just paid whatever she said... this trust has cost him $50,000. Once CS is stopped why would you want to continue to have this lady in your life by going to court?


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There was one agreement that the cs would stop in April but we got no paperwork from lawyer and he said that they would submit it...they apparently did not. The lawyers in this town all stick together. I have already made a complaint to the Upper Law Society and waiting to hear back from them.
It is easier said then done to demand the information when FRO is involved, the ex just submits the bill to them and they take it out or take his pension and all that jazz. That is what his lawyer said...oh just don't pay it...hahaha, try that with FRO
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There was one agreement that the cs would stop in April but we got no paperwork from lawyer and he said that they would submit it...they apparently did not. The lawyers in this town all stick together. I have already made a complaint to the Upper Law Society and waiting to hear back from them.
It is easier said then done to demand the information when FRO is involved, the ex just submits the bill to them and they take it out or take his pension and all that jazz. That is what his lawyer said...oh just don't pay it...hahaha, try that with FRO


Why didn't he make sure his lawyer submitted the agreement to make an order? Making a complaint isn't going to get the order made up. At this time FRO is doing what they are supposed to and enforcing the court order they have. It would be silly to assume the exs lawyer would submit the agreement... that doesn't work in favour of the ex. So as stated expect FRO to take June's payment as they don't have a new court order


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