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Old 10-11-2016, 01:32 PM
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Hence the reason I won't be getting married again or find myself fall into the common law trap. I was lucky to beat the SS claim first time around, why would I want to push my luck next time
Just marry someone who has higher income then you and you will not fall into the trap but instead get SS.
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Just marry someone who has higher income then you and you will not fall into the trap but instead get SS.
This doesn't work at all, women generally marry up (financially) which is alright but the problem is they can also "divorce" up and then bang the mailman or whoever else they want. If they don't marry up the marriages fail even worse than normal....

For now, moving to Quebec is an option, the law has been challenged and it seems Quebecois Pride > Feminism so attempts to make us like the rest of Canada have failed.

However, they are working on something that once you have kids they can now make you pay spousal support. I've read the report, it is a loophole.

The best solution is probably prostitutes and escorts or never live with them. They can stay over but they need to have their own place of residence.
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Not going to dispute this one iota, but these are usually women that don't bring much to the table (earn much) in the first place.

The lady am currently seeing earns an extra 30k more than I do, a nice car, 2 older kids and 3 investment properties. Her ex who earned the same as her, treated her like crap i.e. verbally and in the first month of seeing each other, she has spoiled me and I have treated her like a queen.

I was recently treated to 2 nights at Le Nordik Spa...the place is not cheap and she took care of the bill and everything.

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This doesn't work at all, women generally marry up (financially) which is alright but the problem is they can also "divorce" up and then bang the mailman or whoever else they want. If they don't marry up the marriages fail even worse than normal....

For now, moving to Quebec is an option, the law has been challenged and it seems Quebecois Pride > Feminism so attempts to make us like the rest of Canada have failed.

However, they are working on something that once you have kids they can now make you pay spousal support. I've read the report, it is a loophole.

The best solution is probably prostitutes and escorts or never live with them. They can stay over but they need to have their own place of residence.
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Are you significantly younger than her? Your language suggests as much... Older women have much less market value...

Secondly, if you think people are honest especially divorced people you must lay off the crack.

Enjoy the ride but seriously don't be naive....

Assume she can be lying about everything and putting on a show and don't put yourself in a position that if she was lying that you would get screwed.
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Are you significantly younger than her? Your language suggests as much... Older women have much less market value...

Secondly, if you think people are honest especially divorced people you must lay off the crack.

Enjoy the ride but seriously don't be naive....

Assume she can be lying about everything and putting on a show and don't put yourself in a position that if she was lying that you would get screwed.
Although a bit crude Links17 has a point. If you really want to know what happened go pull the continuing record for the divorce and read it. You will get a view of both sides and what you could become the "target of blame" for in the future.

If someone claims that every relationship has failed because of the other person... you should really really really consider if you will be the next person on that list.
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Links....don't be silly. If you've read my other posts, you will know that I have no intentions of being caught out or dragged into a serious relationship.

Yes she is older than me, and you are right that older women "have less market value". I'm in my early 40s and she is late 40s..however she is petite and big in front.

Most of the women I have dated thus far, have blamed the other guy e.g. called me names, cheated on me, pushed me, etc

I also noticed that she likes to have things her way, which really bothers me, but for now am "enjoying the ride" literally.

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Are you significantly younger than her? Your language suggests as much... Older women have much less market value...

Secondly, if you think people are honest especially divorced people you must lay off the crack.

Enjoy the ride but seriously don't be naive....

Assume she can be lying about everything and putting on a show and don't put yourself in a position that if she was lying that you would get screwed.
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Warms my heart - hopeful, I don't like to see people exploited.
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....my thoughts exactly when am doing all the hard work in the bedroom. It's give and take

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