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Old 01-27-2012, 07:14 PM
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Default Legal Demand through MEPS for Financial Disclosure from ex and new partner

I haven't received my spousal support in four months. He apparently renegotiated for a new job that hasn't materialize yet. I have a question, how long will Maintenance Enforcement wait for the financial disclosure. If they don't produce it, are there any consequences for them that will come out such as being called into court, etc.

I just got EI myself and I am seriously in financial distress.

Gary: Please don't insult me.
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Old 01-27-2012, 09:12 PM
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I just got EI myself and I am seriously in financial distress.

Gary: Please don't insult me.
Congrats on your pogey; I am heartened that my tax dollars are going to good use.

Why would I insult you? I'm certain that you have many good qualities. Like... um... consistency, for example: Every thread you've started has been about how to live off of someone else's earnings.

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Default That was not my Intent

My intent was to get a settlement that he would follow. I don't want to live off of someone else. I wanted him to follow the settlement he came up with. I helped him get his education at the detriment to my own career. Why should I now live in poverty? I wasn't married for a short period of time. I was married for 20 years. I feel I deserve something.

Gary: did you pay anything when your relationship ended. You seriously remind of one of those type of people that wouldn't even pay child support.
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Gary: did you pay anything when your relationship ended. You seriously remind of one of those type of people that wouldn't even pay child support.
You're right: I don't pay child support

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You're right: I don't pay child support

Cheers!

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Don't you think this is becoming childish? I know I do.

Do you have children. Did your former partner ask for spousal support.

This is the last I am saying because I feel this is childish and I am feeling put down.
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Default One last thing

I have been looking for a job for over a year and have worked contract/temp. I just want my fair share. I am not looking to live high off of someone's else earnings and I resent someone making the implication that I am.
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How the hell is someone else's paycheque YOUR fair share?

Perhaps you should actually do some research on Gary's situation before you attempt to use it against him as an insult. Doing so only makes you look ridiculously stupid.

McDonald's and Tim's are always hiring. If you were dead serious about supporting yourself you'd take WHATEVER job you could get to do so. You've been unemployed for over a year, have you applied at either?
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Default As you said not knowing someone's story

As you said not knowing someone's story makes you look ridiculous. I have been working. Furthermore, I have a disability. You are the one that is looking ridiculous.

I helped my ex get his education and he makes four times what I do without even thinking about it. I think I deserve something until I get my career back on track and then I will say good-bye to the spousal support.

This is ridiculous and is just making me angry.
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How the hell is someone else's paycheque YOUR fair share?

Perhaps you should actually do some research on Gary's situation before you attempt to use it against him as an insult. Doing so only makes you look ridiculously stupid. Maybe you should have looked into my situation before you commented. You are the one that looks ridiculous.

McDonald's and Tim's are always hiring. If you were dead serious about supporting yourself you'd take WHATEVER job you could get to do so. You've been unemployed for over a year, have you applied at either?
Yes, I did but with two college diplmas and an almost completed university degree, they told me straight out I was overqualified. I am in Halifax so long term employment is hard to find.


I am wondering if this forum and senior members in it are just there to enflame people.

I never even got equalization because he took everything out before the divorce was final and that it was the judge said they need to take it out of his salary. Maybe you may want to look at my situation.
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Old 01-28-2012, 09:26 AM
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Yeah yeah, you've posted your little story in every thread you've started about how to get your $3700/month spousal support. People are tired of it, give it a break.


You think you 'deserve 'something, others disagree. Others think you should get a job.

And bullshit about having applied at Tim's or McD's. They wouldn't not hire you for being 'overqualified' to sling burgers or pour coffee.

I guess the challenge for you is finding a job that's going to pay you the $3700/month free money you get from the ex. Why work for it if you can sit back and have someone else do the work for you?
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