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Old 04-03-2011, 10:44 AM
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canadamama, you have been around here for a little more than a month.

There must be well over 100,000 posts on this site. You must be a VERY quick study and a VERY quick reader, because from here it would a lot longer than that to actually come to an informed opinion.

Contrary to your statements above, it is you doing the attacking when you play that sad "the big bad men are beating up the women" card.

It's very convenient to pretend that we are all beating up the women. It's cloaks your own abusiveness quite nicely, n'est ce pas?
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Old 04-03-2011, 10:47 AM
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Wow!! Don't you guys think that I am hurting more than enough??
If you don't get your head out of your ass and stand tall, you will be hurting more than now, and more than you thought possible.

We're all in the same boat - that's why we're here.

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Contrary to your statements above, it is you doing the attacking when you play that sad "the big bad men are beating up the women" card.
Stop picking on me!!! ::wail::

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People who come here are vulnerable, and they come here seeking support and information.
Oh sorry, I didn't realize we are here to coddle the hurt.

I thought that this was a site offering legal advice about separation and divorce.
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Sorry, I missed that part.
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Old 04-03-2011, 10:52 AM
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Care to tell me HOW I am wrong? I am yet to see a reasoned or carefully thought-out response in this thread. Simply stating that I am wrong is meaningless. I'm NOT wrong, and saying I am doesn't make it so. If you want to assert that I am wrong, go ahead and read what I am actually asking, read through the thread, and find examples of statements that were helpful and respectful, or actually explain how statements like "I see a career pattern here lol", or "good luck in your future divorces" are anything other than mean-spirited and deliberately hurtful attacks.

The OP in this thread didn't ask to be coddled. She WAS asking for "legal advice about separation and divorce" - instead she got attacked.

I never claimed to have read all of the posts on this board - I claimed to have seen a trend. I could go and gather quotes from various threads to illustrate that trend, but this one stands as a perfect example of exactly what I am talking about.
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Old 04-03-2011, 11:01 AM
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Oh so your judgement of this forum is based on a sampling of the material here?

Are you sure that your sample was representative of the popluation at large? Do you have even a modest understanding of statistics and sampling?

Or are you projecting?

Quit crying lady. It's not a good look for you.
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OK here's a question then.

IS this forum an appropriate place for women to come seeking information about their entitlement to spousal support?

If yes, could someone please direct me to any thread in which this matter is discussed without her character being attacked? Honestly, I have done a lot of reading here, and I haven't found one yet.
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So...you want someone to do the work for you?
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